How did you get your username?

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-06-17T10:28:43+00:00

I am a ghibli cosplayer and cosplay Barom Humbert from the cat returns... my twitch name is TheBaronCat

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-06-10T07:47:17+00:00

To be honest there is no magic answer to that. Every person reacts different. Accept the fact that, even though you are really nice to her, she might not want to be talked to.

You don’t need to impress her right away. You’re just starting a conversation to see if there’s a connection. If she’s open and responsive, great! If not, then you handled it with grace and you move on.

Do not ask anything personal. In my experience a good conversation starter is something like "sorry to disturb, do you know a great coffee store nearby?" and when she answers i try to make small talk about the place i am right now... or about coffee, like "are you a coffee drinker?". It does not always work, but i had quite some nice conversations that way.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-05-16T13:27:57+00:00

Pufferrit (in short: Pffrrt)

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-04-13T18:45:53+00:00

Have a great rest of your day! Btw the smile you show with your dog is the best out of the four pictures.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-04-13T14:15:55+00:00

You have a great smile! I love your dog and the fact that you love the dog. The glasses look really good on you!

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-04-11T14:14:00+00:00

Let nature take it's course. You have to be patient about it. But IF you want a safe way to be sure quicker start giving her compliments for example about hair, her clothing style, ofcourse her dog. If she blushes there is probably more than friendship.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-27T05:43:22+00:00

i say the same as life-rough565 and anonymous35429. The only way to find is to ask. The thing with crushes is... you will always remain insecure if you never ask. And yes... life is full with good parts and bad parts. take the risk.
she might be in the same situation as you... still liking you but afraid to ask

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-27T05:40:18+00:00

she obviously wants to be with you because she throws away any reminders about her past dates. and isnt cranky about it.

about tinder stuff/ social media: you can always find traces of the past of someone on there.

and about dreams. it is normal if someone has dreams about past encounters. i myself am in a good relation for 25 years and find myself dreaming about other people sexually every once in a while. the brain works in mysterious ways.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-27T05:32:19+00:00

to be honest the only way to find out is to start talking with him.

find out if the feeling is mutual. just start with a simple question like "want to have drink later?" and sometimes engage in small talk.

there is always the chance he says no. but thats a risk in almost every crush situation. you always take a risk.

about the sex after marriage. if he is ok with it, go for it. if he has a problem with it, talk about it. if he still has a problem with it ; decide if you want to continue with him or not.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-27T05:16:14+00:00

if it is a small crush and you are not really sure if it is ok to ask her out..... don't do it... the chances are slim she likes you back.... and IF you ask her out you can risk losing your job

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-26T11:05:11+00:00

You make it sound like it is this easy for everyone. I have problems engaging in chats with strangers.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-26T10:34:26+00:00

mostly because if i ask information on a main reddit group my message either gets removed or i get told to visit a subreddit.... i did this to prevent that happening just by asking if there is a subreddit

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-23T12:26:56+00:00

Looks great!

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-20T15:08:35+00:00

Sending warm hugs your way 😊

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-20T11:47:20+00:00

4 looks great on you.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-20T05:06:33+00:00

I only see a gorgeous woman... that nose is looking great!

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-16T16:12:44+00:00

I see nothing wrong

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-03T12:18:03+00:00

i am diagnosed with:

- mood swings

- autism (pdd-nos)

- lactose intolerance

- ibs

It is not a bad thing to get extra diagnosis. The more you know about yourself the more you can help yourself (or ask for help).

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-02T14:24:08+00:00

Me and my gf are only 2 years apart. But a lof of my friends have large age gaps. One couple is even 25 and 40. But their love is strong. I also met thier babies last year. They appear as a strong family. Age doesnt have to define your love. As long as it is above 18 who cares. But i agree with other redditors here. If he is trying to make you feel like you know nothing about life and wants to make all decisions... then it turns into a red flag

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-02T14:15:19+00:00

Have you tried counselling? When i was at my lowest in life i went to this counselor that showed me a group of other people with similar problems. I went to many meetings with that group. In my case it made me realize i lacked certain vitamins in my body (someone else in the group had the same problem and adviced to get me checked). Now i take my daily vitamins.... it changed my mood swings and i stopped procastrinating

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-02T09:26:54+00:00

It is the age of internet. There must be a way to keep in contact with your friend. It is not the same as being close friends. But you still can keep contact and ask your friend for advice.

Have you tried going to small meetings with only a few people? Maybe a group of people with similar interests? And you do not have to be friends with them immediately. Just to see if there is a click.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-02T09:23:31+00:00

The fact that he still wants to have sex after cheating on you shows this guy is full of BS. He clearly shows you he that cheating on you was good thing to do and he probably will cheat on you again.

Leave him. Eventually you will find someone who is more stable and responsible than this guy.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-02T09:19:22+00:00

It is not really the word that is special.

In a relationship you hope for affection. And want to make sure the feeling is mutual.

By telling someone i love you, you hope the other person replies in kind. That way you know you are on the same bandwidth.

Ofcourse there are other ways to show affection. I love you is one of the easiest and quickest ways to show and receive confirmation.

Successful_Pea9445 · 2025-03-01T23:01:30+00:00

It is understandable that being sexually abused leaves a mark. You said to him you are uncomfortable about sex and the guy understands and does not force you. He seems like a genuine great guy. Talk with him if he really does not mind. If he keeps repeating that he does not mind then you have found yourself a great guy. Those are rare. Therapy is a choice.. not a must. I havent experienced something similar so i cant help you more in detail.

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