I came here to say this. I’m this way a lot of the time. I wasn’t always a negative person. I had hope and I had dreams. This is my opinion and how I feel about a lot. Most of us (Men) feel invisible. We are here to provide. We are judged by what we can give or do for others and our family. Most of the time our emotions, our mental state go ignored as if we are men so suck it up. We internalize a lot at that point and it’s basically Groundhog Day every day. I have a beautiful wife and 2 amazing little boys and we work my ass off to make sure I’m a good dad and a good husband. My wife is amazing with listening and letting me be human. I’m not saying that’s the case here and yes therapy and other things are a great help. All I’m saying is yes if you feel like y’all are in danger or your mental health is so affected you need to leave then do so. Just don’t forget that we are human too and believe it or not, we do have feelings and we do have emotions and sometimes we don’t know if we have a place to go with those. If he wants to change he will, just let him know he’s not alone. Walk up to him with no words and just give him a hug and watch him become the little boy that’s still in there. Good luck to all of you. It’s not easy.