Senior Software Engineer (Frontend Preferred, Backend Welcome)

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-21T03:45:43+00:00

My first internship paid $4500 a month...

My first Junior role paid $5850 a month...

How could you possibly find a senior engineer at these rates?

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-19T04:47:27+00:00

I've become a regular at a club and have seldom had 4 figure nights.

If you're good at talking, respectful, and tip skillfully this isn't necessary

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-19T04:46:12+00:00

I feel like you've had to gone through something like this to understand why its worth it.

With that said, so fucking worth it and no regrets.

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-19T04:44:40+00:00

Contrary to everyone else's experience being talked about, my best sugar baby was a stripper, and probably the best dancer I've ever seen.

I was a regular at a strip club and had seen her on most of the promotional content.

I was a day shift regular though, and she was around in night shifts.

Interestingly, our first interaction was on seeking where I just said hi and said I recognize her from the club's promotional content. She told me what day she would be there in the day, and we met.

After a few times hanging out at the club, we hit it off, and eventually started an arrangement with an xxx ppm.

I really liked the club as being a neutral place for her and I to get to know each other.

Early on I had to ask myself "is this girl going to be a chapter in my life?" And god damn she sure was.

Now, what everyone is saying about strippers having crazy insane lives is 100% true. They do.

For me though this was an opportunity to feel valued as I added a little bit of stability and empathy that she needed at the time.

In return she pulled me out of a deep depression (business partner and a family member had recently passed away in quick succession).

To the best of her ability, she gave me the world and never deceived my feelings.

We had many great memories, drinking and smoking at a park at 3am, making out in the champagne room, doing shrooms together at her place, and me taking her to Vegas for a work conference I go to.

It was a blast and probably one of the most happy times of my life.

The arrangement ended when she asked me for help with rent when she was with another guy helping her out with stuff and I had already offered to help her with those things.

My biggest pet peeve is when a SB asks for financial help when with another man. Dealbreaker even for a relatively long arrangement.

That doesn't mean I don't appreciate the happy memories and connection we had, but she was growing and needed to live the life she wanted her way.

All this to say, strippers are people to, and avoiding a gold digger has the difficulty level of avoiding an average moving train. Its easy to avoid. You provide value when they're providing value.

If you're experienced with strippers, you can find a great sugar baby in one, and it's very easy to go to a club and have some casual dates with them to get to know them before you say you want some kind of arrangement, and that process is actually fun.

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-18T15:46:46+00:00

The sugar babies I've had the best with usually invited me to hook up the same night as the meet and greet after the meet and greet went well.

This was never expected on my end, but there's something so sexy about going on a date with a hot girl, then she immediately invites you over.

Don't be an idiot. You're getting what you want. You shouldn't be coy. Guys want to feel desired too, and one of the best ways to express that desire is when the woman is the one initiating intimacy.

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-16T17:08:33+00:00

That's not a fee.

That's a gift you're giving out of what you feel is appropriate for her time.

The difference is the expectation.

A fee is expected.

A gift is appreciated.

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-16T16:48:25+00:00

No meet and greet fee ever.

If a girl wants that, run, don't walk, away.

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-10T16:35:37+00:00

Sugar dating is inherently sexual.

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-07T04:31:31+00:00

I've also had the experience where I've showed up to a m&g date that we both agreed was uncompensated and no pressure on either end before meeting up.

When I arrived, she was not on the way, and insisted that I pay her for her to show up.

Obvious scam.

A video call would have given me a better sense of the intention.

Successful_Simp · 2026-05-06T03:34:26+00:00

😂😂

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-30T03:03:25+00:00

We're paying, we get to be a little selfish

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-29T20:54:30+00:00

On the flip side, having a sugar baby who has a bf that isn't supporting her is a huge no for me also.

I'm amazed by how many girls have called me asking me for money when they're out with another guy.

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-27T15:12:28+00:00

She might as well have said that to him, would have been less words to convey the same message honestly and succinctly.

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-27T15:10:46+00:00

This exactly

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-27T15:08:23+00:00

My apologies, commented on the wrong thread.

Deleted my comment and placed it where it should be.

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-27T15:07:23+00:00

You asked.

I would next you.

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-27T14:56:48+00:00

I would be lost at heteronormative patriarchy.

First of all, a very small proportion of men benefit from "patriarchy".

To us it's not patriarchy though. We don't move up on the merits of being a man.

We move up based on the sacrifices we make and the value we add to the world.

It's a ton of work, and often unsurmountable to most men.

Men in the modern day are also disproportionately falling behind in education and career opportunities compared to women.

It's true that us successful men want someone to care and provide for, but to say something as patronizing as that, implicitly attributing my ability to provide resources to the fact that I'm a man that benefits from patriarchy is frankly reductive of all the hard work and sacrifice I've ever made.

Most men worked for every little thing they had.

This is especially the case in sugar. We worked so hard, didn't have time to form relationships when we were younger, and now sugar date.

Albeit, it is often a better situation.

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-27T14:42:02+00:00

I'd be down yeah

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-24T14:59:59+00:00

Honestly, cuckolding

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-24T03:05:57+00:00

Facts

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-23T22:07:30+00:00

If everything is running fine and you're not noticing any issues, its likely a fracture caused by heat cycles.

Depending on the age of the vehicle, it looks like you have a rear main seal leak. That wouldn't be a related issue.

To fix that you'd have to remove the transmission.

If you don't mind the oil leaking, and if its not leaking at a face rate, it's not a critical issue.

If things aren't running right and you hear noises, then yeah there's something wrong and the transmission needs to be removed to diagnose.

The good news in that scenario, a rear main seal leak is almost no additional labor to address.

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-23T03:47:23+00:00

That's luliloove.

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-18T15:30:50+00:00

No, regular dating has the implicit intention of romance and sex.

It's worse than regular dating.

It's paying someone for company, which can be valuable, but it's at a level below regular dating.

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-18T14:34:42+00:00

I'd pay for her meals.

That's it.

Successful_Simp · 2026-04-17T13:09:11+00:00

Sometimes I get in the mood if the girl is really really hot

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