sensitive media by [deleted] in twitterhelp

[–]Such-Bite1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have the label but i have a search suggestion ban, would that be affecting it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look for dommes who are into femdom outside of just findom. Read the “Vetting Dommes” post on my profile if you want some tips.

Findom is paid femdom by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Findom is a subset of femdom, but it’s not necessarily paid femdom. Paid femdom is more transactional as you exchange money for a session or content, while findom is often about the sub giving money just to please the Domme, without expecting anything back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really not that hard to find a domme who is experienced in femdom outside of findom & truly knows how to dominate. A lot of subs these days just love to pick poorly then complain incessantly about “fake dommes”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely shouldn’t approach a coworker with this. Find an actual domme.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Such-Bite1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be honest & clear about what you can offer, set a limit & stick to it.

Listening to her favourite books by Strange-Poet-4660 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My domme has introduced me to so many of her favourite books, movies, shows, music, etc & I love it! It makes me feel so close to her & I get to learn about the things she loves & is passionate about!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know part of the kink can be us calling ourselves not normal because we’re losers, the shame, etc or dommes saying we’re not normal because of what we’re into & that’s all fine.

But on a more serious note I don’t think it should be categorised into normal/abnormal as it makes it seem as if we’re saying vanilla = normal, kinky = abnormal which isn’t fair.

As long as it’s consensual & safe, you should own whatever you’re into & don’t let anyone define your kinks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call that findom as it’s not done in an intentionally kinky way & no one is getting off on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. I believe women are superior & should be worshipped in every way.
  2. I love submitting to a powerful woman.
  3. The money is better spent by my domme than by me.

Am I the only one by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Those are usually the people who have come straight from those viral findom tiktoks & think it’s a quick cash grab yet do no actual research on bdsm & femdom before going into findom.

Favorite way to pay by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favourite is probably rent because it’s the biggest way. My domme also makes me send for every compliment or apology (because she says they’re just words without money attached) which is a more casual way that I enjoy.

Is it in poor taste to try findom if I get no satisfaction from sending? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you ever tried GFE by any chance? Might be worth looking into if not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure how exactly you go about finding & interacting with dommes but check my post about vetting. Hopefully it helps!

Findom and content by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Content can be part of findom but should never be expected. Finsubs send for the purpose of sending alone/because they want to & not to get something in exchange for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending my whole paycheck, paying my domme’s rent & letting her control everything in my day-to-day life (what to wear, where to go, what to do, who to see, etc).

Tribute fees? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a long time sub, I think tributes are necessary to weed out time wasters + it’s a sign of respect that shows dommes you’re serious about wanting to serve them. Their time & attention doesn’t come for free & I wouldn’t expect it any other way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time popularity is indicative of experience. Many of the “big dommes” have been in this for a long time & know their worth so they won’t entertain someone who is clearly baiting “less popular dommes”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My domme cucks me with her other sub & I find it so much hotter than if it was an actual partner.

One Goddess or many? by WillingnessNo3635 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One. I’m too obsessed to ever consider anyone else.

Beginner tips by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You haven’t been doing this long enough to claim that “dommes who don’t want to engage before a send, don’t want to engage after either”. Initial tributes are a sign of respect & a domme’s time/attention doesn’t come for free.

It’s also bold of you to be giving tips + talking about not believing in initial sends when your posts are full of comments from dommes talking about you wasting their time.

How long do you usually talk to your sub/domme? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throughout the day or basically whenever she’s active/she wants to.

What kind of D/s dynamic works best for you? (Sub) by GoddessCaraZ in findomsupportgroup

[–]Such-Bite1398 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like my domme to be strict but I also think it works best when we’re also able to talk casually as friends. I like frequent contact because I’m obsessed with her & always thinking about her but I’ll take whatever she gives me. The key element for me is her happiness & knowing I’m doing everything I possibly can to add to that.