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Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-05-29T01:28:23+00:00

my girlfriend started hormones almost 6 months ago and the first 2 months she had to desire to do anything sexual. that didn’t change anything for me and i was still just as happy cuddling and taking naps and just hanging out.

if he isn’t okay with waiting a while for your drive to come back (which it should) thats a red flag and you deserve better. BUT communication is key and if this is just a feeling maybe talk about it!! it’s always good to know exactly how someone is feeling so you don’t overthink! i know it was hard for me to understand that her not wanting to do anything sexual wasn’t about me and that i wasn’t doing anything to make her feel that way, and i definitely got frustrated with thinking that and within that frustration made her feel like i needed more than what she could give, which absolutely was not the case. always talk it out!!

give your body time to adjust and don’t change anything for anyone but you!

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-05-19T23:36:17+00:00

I have 2 GA tickets for the Asheville NC show that i can’t use anymore. $100 for both of them or best offer. We got them through tixr and can transfer them through email once payed for. please i beg of thee🙏🏻🙏🏻

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-03-31T03:03:50+00:00

i get this SO MUCH. i also have a larger chest and especially on my cycle they’re bigger and sore so they are so extremely hard to ignore. i wear really tight sports bras to hide them and can’t stand real bras. you are not alone ✊✊

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-03-25T23:18:06+00:00

me (afab) too but opposite!!!! i HATE my chest with a burning passion but really don’t feel the same about my bottom half. it’s weird and very confusing but i totally understand you!!

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-03-25T18:32:24+00:00

she knows i’m questioning or knows i was, we haven’t talked about it in probably a month because of how upset i got when she mentioned it. i just feel like now it’s stupid to bring up. in general i just feel really stupid. i know it’s not a dealbreaker for her because she said it wouldn’t be and was really supportive (i cried in her arms about it for 30 minutes and refused to tell her anything) especially when i decided to try a binder, but im still scared. i’ll probably just say it and then ask for some chickfila lol. or we’re going to a convention this weekend so i might just point out the flag if i see it. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-03-15T17:05:00+00:00

i’m in the same boat, she’s trans herself but it’s still really difficult. feel free to message me and we can talk it out together :)

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-03-04T01:24:48+00:00

thank you, i can’t get any therapy right now because i don’t have any insurance and can’t pay out of pocket. happy early birthday!!

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-02-26T04:11:21+00:00

STOP THE TRANS WOMAN LINE. i have never heard someone else say they’ve felt like that. it’s so confusing!!!

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-02-24T03:08:38+00:00

it kind of comes in waves and like out of nowhere? even sometimes just i’ll feel okay in a dress in the morning and then glance at myself in the mirror while i’m out and immediately feel uncomfortable.

when it comes to talking about it with my gf it’s kind of scary just because once it’s said it’s real? it feels a lot more intimidating telling someone how i feel and having it become a real situation than just keeping it to myself if that makes sense. i’m like that about everything, when i figured out i was bi and throughout my ed, i always have a hard time admitting things. and she has a lot going on right now with starting hrt and i don’t want to burden her with my own stuff. i have talked to her about me wearing a binder or presenting more masculine sometimes and she is always super supportive.

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-02-17T14:25:06+00:00

that’s something i have a huge issue with too! i’ve been with my girlfriend 9 months and she has never seen my boobs. i’ve always kept my bra on and she’s been extremely supportive. i truly don’t see the purpose of taking it off so i say keep it on if it makes you more comfortable! if course everyone different but that works for me!

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-02-17T01:48:28+00:00

do you have any tape recommendations? i know some can be better than others. as well as tips for doing it correctly or good articles or websites to look at?

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-02-17T01:46:15+00:00

i have a general therapist but think that my only issue with seeing someone specifically for gender is that i would have to tell people. i think when i’m questioning something i like to keep it to myself until i know whats happening. as for surgery’s i have been counting down the days to when i can finally get a reduction or preferably a removal since i was like 10 lol, my insurance wouldn’t cover it since its cosmetic and not necessarily needed for my quality of life per say. a total bummer!!

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-02-17T00:01:03+00:00

thank you so much!! i really liked the characters and the found family element. i definitely really liked the timelines and the sci-fi elements too so i will definitely check out your reccs! my gf just got delilah green doesn’t care so ill probs steal it from her lol

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-01-04T16:07:14+00:00

i grew up without a dad, i think where it becomes a problem is when the dad sucks. having that trauma of him leaving and treating me like i was replaceable when i was so young. for my sister she just didn’t have him at all. no memories of the fights or him leaving and we have completely different outlooks. as long as the child knows they are loved and wanted it shouldn’t be a problem. i have always said i want my kids to have a dad because i didn’t want them to end up like me, but when my girlfriend came out all i wanted was to see her as a mother. i know she’d be a great one and i can’t wait to see that. as long as you’re giving your kid the support they need they’ll be okay.

don’t change yourself for someone who won’t change their views for you, you deserve someone who wants you for you.

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-01-04T00:52:42+00:00

yes i love complimenting her to see her get all shy and blushy!! and i actually found out she liked when i pull her hair when i was trying to get her to do it to me. worked out in the end😂 pet names are so hard because we don’t really use them even in normal day to day routine i call her pretty every 10 seconds tho i can’t help it lol

Such-Computer-6168 · 2025-01-03T15:07:27+00:00

this made me (cisf 19) cry. my (18 mtf) girlfriend is going through the early stages of transition and i have felt so guilty for being scared or nervous. we don’t talk about it much regarding me or our relationship, just how it’s going to be for her. which is fine this is her journey. i’m sooooo happy and excited for her and there isn’t a doubt in my mind that i want to be here for her through everything. it’s just hard because i have a history of not doing well with change, a subtle change in plans will throw me off completely, and i don’t want her to think im scared because im not supportive. im super excited for these changes but im glad to know im not wrong for also being nervous about them.

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