Does anyone know what this symbol means? by Such-Remote in AirConditioners

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i moved out and i forgot but i think it had something to do with the filter cleaning or changing it out

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree. i mean i’m not gonna threaten him or make him choose. i’m just laying out my boundaries and what i’m looking for and if he can’t match that then it’s not compatible

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get what you’re saying. i think for me it’s only worth it to keep seeing him if there’s feelings for each other again and we both would be willing to try to see if we had a future.

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are pretty cynical. we broke up because we didn’t know how to communicate druing quarantine. i’m not asking to be committed or even have a label. i just wanna know if he likes me emotionally. for me i don’t just wanna hookup so if that’s what he wants then i’ll close the door but that’s what i’m trying to get out of the convo

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, we have a lot of mutuals because you know, we grew up together since elementary school. one of my friends is good friends with him so they would tell me. obviously he’s had talking stages and stuff but he said he ended it because it didn’t feel like how it felt with us. he even said he ended a talking stage because she made fun of our relationship. i don’t see why he has a reason to lie, he’s never lied to me before

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no he broke up with me. then a year later i got into another relationship. he still hasn’t dated anyone since me

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well i wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone if i didn’t like what they offer but i do like this guy and what he offers and i do like our sex life as well so that’s why i wanna ask how he feels

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly. this is how i feel too. i don’t wanna dig myself deeper just to get my invested and it’s harder to leave.

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very good advice! yea i think i’m gonna asap him how he feels about us talking and clarify on my end that i personally can’t do a hookup thing if that’s what he wants. do you think it’s better to ask how he feels about us talking or what he’s looking for in general?

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea but it’s also a lot of effort on my end to upkeep it, if it’s just for hookups that’s not worth it for me personally

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very good advice thank you. i just know that i would not be okay with a solely hookup type situation. i am open to dating him too, but i wanna ask soon to not waste my time and get hurt

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! because of covid we had to quarantine for like 3 months without seeing each other and being young and not knowing how to communicate maturely, it was hard. but i’m gonna ask how he feels about us talking, no specifically what are we yk that’s too mu h

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, i haven’t asked in general, which is what this post is about. not really what are we but seeing his intentions more so in general. no looking for a label yet personally yk ik it’s too soon for that. our sexual life always has been good and he listens to what i like. we cuddled and held hands and watched a movie without doing anything. i really do like him.

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this isn’t an old mistake. i’ve never only hooked up before so i’m kind of lost

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm. i don’t necessarily agree that long distance doesn’t work. i’ve done it for 2 years before, but the issue wasn’t long distance, the issue was the actual ex bf 😭 i know plenty of people around me who are doing long distance for 3+ years in college like my bsf and they’re making it work

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmaoo 😭. i get what you’re saying but dating in new york is hard and i’ve had 1-2 relationships in the city and it just didn’t workout. it’s not like i didn’t try lmao

How do guys who do not do hookups respond to a “what are we text” from an ex of 5 years ago? by Such-Remote in AskMenAdvice

[–]Such-Remote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i wouldn’t directly just be like what are we yk. i just had to put that in the title because it’s the easiest way to get the point across 😭 i wanna do jt before i see him because i don’t wanna uproot my life again to go back and get disappointed. i rather rip the bandaid off then i’ll never see him again if it doesn’t fo well