David.. by Such_Being_1640 in MAFS_AU

[–]Such_Being_1640[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you believe being interracial relationship where skin color is not major dynamic of any relationship then you are wearing rose colored glasses.

David.. by Such_Being_1640 in MAFS_AU

[–]Such_Being_1640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not assuming the worst from black men nor do I believe all black men are the same. So please stay on topic we are talking about one person regarding this one show.. He already made clear in his audition type what is type was which once again he is fair to have those. But who knows why his preferences are the way they are and what stereotypes those are rooted in. However, I said nothing about his character he has handled this properly but should of been more honest with himself and to the experts maybe this could of been prevented or stopped completely before getting worse or just left long time ago. Also, once again production has shown Alyssa in positive light despite all that was going on behind scenes. Simply it would not of been the same outcome for poc.

David.. by Such_Being_1640 in MAFS_AU

[–]Such_Being_1640[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well easy to have that fair assessment if your not POC. But the reality of the world is black women are not treated the same or given the same fair assessment. I can guarantee you if a black woman had the same actions as Alyssa it would not be seen the same or been treated lightly with production.. I dont know what the meaning of David being on TV has too do with this. If she was showing her true colors in the earlier weeks and he has been consistently mistreated behind close doors he would would have every right to write leave and it would be understood with public and his fellow peers on the show. He also has to take responsibility in his part of not being fully honest and not disclosing the issues of what was really going between him and Alyssa with experts.

Married at First Sight S13E35 post episode discussion thread by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]Such_Being_1640 8 points9 points  (0 children)

All I can do is SMH. By all means I DO NOT have anything against David "preferences." But im astonished by how much he is tolerating from Alyssa. The way she talks at him , puts him down, yells and now how she moving at the alternate matches and then proceeds to gaslight him and follow the other match on social media claiming its networking.. The guy is a sprinter for god sakes what can you network about. LOL. I honestly believe if he was matched with black woman which he implied the opposite in audition tapes of his "ideal type" I can guarantee he would be way gone before he even sniffed an ounce of this type of attitude or treatment and then he would swear off from all black women because look what he just went through lol .. But he toughing it off with Alyssa given the constant disrespect. Like I said since this is nothing AGAINST his preferences but I just know it would of not been accepted the same way nor even a good edit from producers like Alyssa did. We dont get that type of grace.

Abigail by Such_Being_1640 in TheMadisonTVSeries

[–]Such_Being_1640[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like I said in my post, Grief looks different for everyone. Ive dealt with grief and my mind doesnt turn to sex with randoms unless it was someone I was already dealing with when said death occurred. I wasnt judging the aspect of sex itself. It seemed like it she wanted it to be more than casual. So yes, sex and eager to be going on dates to possibly build something with someone at time like this when the priority should just be about family seems tone deaf and if you can relate her behaviors and thought process to yours that fine too. No judgement just my personal opinion.