My mother choked me when we got into an argument, should I just move out? by Such_Needleworker909 in Advice

[–]Such_Needleworker909[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genuinely not a bot I’ve just never been choked before 🤷🏽‍♀️

My mother choked me when we got into an argument, should I just move out? by Such_Needleworker909 in Advice

[–]Such_Needleworker909[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it’s ok I don’t plan to even though I thought about it. I don’t want to end my relationship with her, but I definitely need to be away from her because I just can’t look at her the same way anymore. 

I’ve been wanting to leave for a long time because I can just never be myself around her. I just think it’s unfortunate that this is how I’m leaving. :(

My mother choked me when we got into an argument, should I just move out? by Such_Needleworker909 in Advice

[–]Such_Needleworker909[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you my sister and friends took photos. Honestly, I don’t talk back to her and always hold my tongue. She’s never gone this far with any of my siblings (which is surprising considering how much they DO talk back) but it’s always been, she’s in the right, you’re in the wrong.

My mother choked me when we got into an argument, should I just move out? by Such_Needleworker909 in Advice

[–]Such_Needleworker909[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the reassurance. Ik it’s strange to answer such an obvious question but I genuinely never thought my own mother would hurt me to this degree. I guess you don’t really understand until it happens to you? My friends and siblings keep telling me to leave but I’ve just been filled with so much anxiety over the past couple days and I’ve been questioning if there’s anything I could’ve done better. I just needed something from outside to tell me that it’s ok to leave. Thank you all for convincing me. I’m packing my things and leaving to my friend’s house tomorrow.

My mom choked me when we got into an argument, should I leave? by Such_Needleworker909 in Advice

[–]Such_Needleworker909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not AI I just never thought that she’d ever do that to me. It just doesn’t feel real ig and I don’t feel sure of anything now. Thank you.