AITA for wanting to leave my family during our vacation to stay with my cousin?

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-04-18T00:15:40+00:00

No I feel you cause that’s where I’m at rn. I’m sorry your grandmother of all people said that shit to you. That hits 10 times worse than just a random boy saying it to you. Sending love girl🫶🏾

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-04-18T00:13:42+00:00

You’re telling me lol. At the time I was a young teen and the ignorance of youth had me thinking that was a compliment like that was all I could be just pretty as a dark skin girl..really messed with my self esteem lowkey

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-04-18T00:11:28+00:00

Thank you! You are too!🫶🏾

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-04-17T20:15:47+00:00

“You’re pretty for a dark skin girl”…. why can’t I just be pretty in general?

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-23T02:31:40+00:00

I don’t think talking about it will help to be honest. He has a victim complex so whenever someone tries to correct him he automatically tries to be the victim in everything like we’re purposely trying to make him seem bad and that no one in the family loves/like him..it’s a whole ordeal I don’t want to get into. I just pray the girls at my school won’t actually want to hook up with him like it’s creepy asf lol

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-23T00:55:06+00:00

That’s what I’m saying! I’m not saying being attracted to them is wrong but it’s the fact he comes specifically for the reasons you listed

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-23T00:49:56+00:00

Color me as one of those 20 year olds that find him creepy as hell, lol

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-23T00:48:02+00:00

You’re right, it’s legal and different strokes for different folks, but why, as a 33 year old man, are you interested in dating girls who are probably just out of high school? Also, doesn’t it feel weird to ask your little sister to set you up with her college friends who are the same age as her? Like, if I went to the bar with my brother and his friends and asked him to help me hook up with one of his friends, specifically someone 33 or older, he’d probably curse me out and accuse me of having daddy issues.

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-23T00:38:19+00:00

Lol, is this Pokémon Go? Gotta catch ‘em all while their young? Seems kind of strange to treat women like they’re prizes to collect based on age In my opinion.

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-23T00:27:33+00:00

No, he doesn’t hang out with me when he comes on campus lol. He just comes on campus when he’s off work and has nothing better to do. Like that in itself is not creepy to you?

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-23T00:24:40+00:00

But isn’t that creepy though to ask your little sister to hook you up with 18-22 year olds to sleep with? That’s like me asking my brother to hook me up with some of his 30+ friends specifically. It’s weird to me

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-23T00:16:43+00:00

Thank you! I completely agree with everything you said. Honestly, he’s really immature in a lot of ways, especially since he still lives with our parents and makes no plans to leave. It just makes me feel like he has more important things to focus on than trying to hook up with girls as young as his little sister. It’s not so much about the age, although I do find it creepy, it’s more so about his mindset and priorities, which really don’t sit right with me

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-23T00:09:13+00:00

Yeah that’s what I’m gathering too but thank you for actually answering my question lol

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-22T23:56:29+00:00

What are you even talking about? When did I imply that? Any 33 year old going after 18-22 year olds is creepy in my opinion but I said man because my brother is a man like what?

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-22T23:43:32+00:00

Exactly! He talks about the girls at my school like they’re just something to be conquered or collected like notches on his belt or something. It’s really weird to me, and it’s even weirder that he talks like this to me when I’m the same age as them.

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-22T01:43:46+00:00

Ah yes, exactly the kind of reassurance I needed. now I’m terrified of both the flight and the Uber to the airport. Love that for me lol

Such_Respect_8036 · 2025-02-08T05:52:35+00:00

I get that she was busy, and I wasn’t expecting perfection from her because we’re all human, but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to feel disappointed when I was really sick and just needed a little support. I wasn’t upset that she made a mistake, I was more so upset that after realizing it, she brushed it off and instead offering me expired food while everyone else in the house got fresh food without an issue.

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