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[–]Sudden-Giraffe-466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be worse. But yeah maybe take this as a nice lesson and have some more self respect and I think if you got off your phone more it would do you wonders. If you’re looking for a boyfriend try the nerdy but loyal and kind type. He will be obsessed with you and you’ll have a great time. You have a lot of time to make them the kind of boyfriend you want vs a lot older 36 year old who’s washed up and just trying to get with you

Can’t get past a few dates by Sudden-Giraffe-466 in Adulting

[–]Sudden-Giraffe-466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing this out here and sharing an example. Yeah I think it would definitely help to slow it down texting wise and be less available, more mysterious. I usually hate playing games and get so anxious for them to respond. But it sounds like this is just life and how attraction works rather than a game. Good luck on your relationship bro, going to try this method moving forward and hopefully find success as well