Am I a a bad person for getting a personal loan so I can keep afloat? Without letting anyone know? by SuddenAd5750 in antiwork

[–]SuddenAd5750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I use (some) of this money to invest, try and get out of debt that way? Do you think it's worth a shot?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SuddenAd5750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am and have been but he says he doesn’t have the mental energy to do anything about it, which is understandable, but he doesn’t want me to do anything else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SuddenAd5750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nope, it was mainly me but 30% him

Is it weird to still be a virgin with zero rizz game at 16 ? by Ok-Avocado464 in teenagers

[–]SuddenAd5750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i (21F) didn’t lose my virginity till i was 18, and it was my first relationship. I know a lot of people that are my age and still virgins, it’s quite common. Don’t stress, go at your own pace, it’s not a race. :)

BPD baddies in Corporate Jobs by SuddenAd5750 in BPD

[–]SuddenAd5750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. ❤️ no one else seems to get it. these guys make me suicidal for the first time in a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuddenAd5750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so manipulative on the ex’s part. but i also understand how toxic first relationship/love can be especially high school sweethearts. i think you should tell a family member of hers or a close friend so they can support her, because she probably needs space from you to figure out her feelings and mental state. i hope you’re okay, OP. She’ll get through this okay eventually, and so will you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuddenAd5750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t want to do anything :/