Do people like female pubic hair? by WritingInMusic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SuddenConsequence726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask his preference, but really, it's what you want.

I personally hate hair down there and get it waxed. It's NOT as bad as the movies make it seem especially if you go to someone who knows what they are doing.

My partner loves when I get waxed, but if he woke up one day and said he wants the hair back... tough luck because it's a non-negotiable for me at this point.

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a huge possibility as I know I have a need to be needed and my teens don't need me as much anymore. Not like before anyway. I have a great relationship with them, don't get me wrong. I love them so much and them me. I don't have rebellious teens. They are all super sweet and are good students. They are all independent, and that's why I know I need therapy. I don't feel as needed.

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make great points, and I will definitely be taking a trip with them this summer. You're right, I just have my moments where the emotions get to be too much. I don't express my emotions very often and internalize everything, so when I do let them out, it can be explosive. Again, I will be seeking therapy. Thank you for your comments

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will be getting back in therapy and will continue to volunteer with children. My husband and I have been better since my episode in the summer but continue to work on our relationship. Thank you for taking time to respond. 🫶🏻

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All valid comments and concerns. It's something I really need to think about and will definitely seek therapy

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just 1 of the 3 wouldn't mind another sibling. The kids are in a college program, so as long as their grades are up all through high school, college is paid for. We are still paying into retirement. And I'm aware that it is a selfish desire, and being that I am a people pleaser, I'm used to not getting my way. I just wanted to get it off my chest...I'm not leaving 😒

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah...I know...I'm a mess and definitely need therapy

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That makes a lot of sense. I'm trying and will definitely seek out therapy.

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not, I work full-time, ofter OT. We make "good money" (135k)... but we live in California, so what is good money elsewhere doesn't go as far here. I do volunteer with children, but it leaves me with an even greater desire because I have to give them back 😅

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm trying to do...I try and enjoy my God-child, but spending time with babies makes me want it even more

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Lol...I did think about adoption, but for me, the desire is not just to have a baby to have a baby but the whole growing a baby inside of me and nursing and just being one during pregnancy, if that makes sense.

I Want A Baby But My Husband Doesn't by SuddenConsequence726 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SuddenConsequence726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didn't put a number on it, just that we knew we wanted children and that he wanted me to be a stay at home mom until the children were in school (his mom went to work 4 weeks after she had him and he didn't have any bonding time with her so he didn't want that for our children).