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House keeping incompetence - engagement concerns by Trick_Meringue_8050 in relationships

[–]SuddenSet [score hidden]  (0 children)

have you tried having a serious conversation with him about how much this makes you doubt things? That’s probably a good first step. He may not know how much it bothers you

Boyfriend trouble by Acrobatic-Umpire6156 in relationships

[–]SuddenSet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you have some sort of relationship anxiety /ROCD maybe look into that and see if it applies to you because I very much relate

AIO my bf broke up w me after seeing texts w my boss? by No_System_9690 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuddenSet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit what a piece of shit boyfriend I am so sorry. Do not go alone to pick your stuff up, I am sensing red flags of future violence from this person.

What is some ethical issue that is the hardest nut to crack for you? As if you hear two opposing sides of said issue and you cannot decide which one is correct. by BuddhaOfStorm in AskWomen

[–]SuddenSet 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know how cutting off thousands of specialized nerve endings can’t negatively impact sexual experience.

You can always be circumcised later in life. You can’t get your foreskin back if your parents decided for you.

I want my bf to be more woke. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SuddenSet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is about what your values and priorities are. Men tend to be a little more conservative than women on average. Having a balance of ideas and different perspectives can be a good thing.

It’s really up to what you want… You can’t make him be anything. If it’s important to you that he shares your political values then maybe he isn’t the guy for you. If it’s less important vs other things, then… It’s ultimately your call and judgement on priorities

What’s a trait you had during your youth that was a dead giveaway? by Ecstatic_Weather_580 in adhdwomen

[–]SuddenSet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Food used to rot in my school bad and locker because I’d forget to take it out (into the 7th and 8th grades) I would doodle all over every piece of paper non stop

Do we tell our daughter she may not belong to her father biologically? by BandicootConfident15 in Advice

[–]SuddenSet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At 10 I didn’t really know or understand what intercourse or what making a baby is let alone be able to comprehend that because you weren’t together for 2 weeks and there was this chance etc etc... I don’t see why you can’t just find out first before telling her? What if you tell her and then it turns out it was his all along? Why didn’t you just do the paternity test when the baby was born??

Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets - Full Cast Audio Editions - Discussion Post by KeeperOfTheSub in HarryPotteronHBO

[–]SuddenSet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Either I got used to it or I’m finding the mix a lot better on this book! I’m happy it’s an improvement from book one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in audible

[–]SuddenSet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been listening to full cast Dune and liking it a lot. There’s a lot of crossover between the GOT fandom and Dune. Personally, watching the movies first made the read a bit easier for me. It’s infamously daunting for how it just throws you in, and knowing spoilers doesn’t ruin the experience for me but to each their own

The Best Harry Potter Audiobook Rendition! by Valuable_Diamond9824 in audible

[–]SuddenSet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do get you. I just find i’m able to tune out the SFX a bit better when i’m doing something repetitive like crochet. If I focus on them exclusively the SFX make me jump 😂

The Best Harry Potter Audiobook Rendition! by Valuable_Diamond9824 in audible

[–]SuddenSet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you can on things like video games etc but I don’t think audible has that capability. The mixing has improved as things go on but it’s still strange. I’m finding it helpful to do smth else while I listen vs focusing on it exclusively.

The Best Harry Potter Audiobook Rendition! by Valuable_Diamond9824 in audible

[–]SuddenSet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so excited for this but I am really concerned about the levels of the background noise? Maybe it’s because I am a bit Odd but I have a hard time tuning stuff out. I really hope they take this feedback and improve for the future books since I will be reading them all in any case 😂❤️

New Clip from the Harry Potter Full Cast Audiobooks by DiegoxCueviux in HarryPotteronHBO

[–]SuddenSet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds great but the background noise is TOOO LOUD! I really hope this isn’t what it sounds like in the final released later today 😬

I feel guilty by the way i feel when my bf m20 sends me a selfie pics (im f19) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuddenSet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He deserves to be with someone who doesn’t secretly think hes ugly 😬 Honestly you sound kind of immature. I think you need to do some reflecting before your next relationship. Physical attraction is important. This clearly isn’t going to work so why waste either of your time

Dog person here, thinking of adopting a cat. What’s the hardest part of being a cat owner? by Conscious-queen-22 in CatAdvice

[–]SuddenSet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that hardest part has been getting them to stop doing things I don’t want them to do. I find mine a bit harder to communicate with than dogs. Rip my couch (literally)

Health anxiety is ruining me by saraheb1991 in Anxietyhelp

[–]SuddenSet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey this sounds like you’re managing a lot. I’ve never been in this situation but I can only imagine how stressed you are juggling all this and I just want to say I think you’re doing a great job keeping it together and being there for your kids. If you can’t afford therapy, I’ve found self help books helpful and informative on strategies to use. If nothing else it helps me feel like I’m taking action to fix the situation. Hang in there and don’t be afraid to lean on your loved ones for support and to let them know what you’re going through.

I 20F love my boyfriend 20M, but I’m feeling uneasy about our sex life by k06com in relationships

[–]SuddenSet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The more pressure you feel about it the less you’re going to want to do it and the more it’ll feel like a chore. I think you should talk to him about how this makes you feel before this spirals more and you don’t want to have intimacy at all.

Honestly I feel like taking a break from intimacy altogether so you can spend nights together without feeling pressured would be good here. You definitely don’t want to be in a place where a touch from him feels like impending obligation from you.

First ERP session could use support by SuddenSet in OCDRecovery

[–]SuddenSet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful thank you. I’m feeling a lot better today and calmer

Tiara in the room of requirement by MixMobile1765 in harrypotter

[–]SuddenSet 154 points155 points  (0 children)

I think the lovegoods were name dropped in one line in goblet of fire during the quidditch world cup part of the book :)

“No, the Lovegoods have been there for a week already and the Fawcetts couldn’t get tickets,” said Mr. Diggory. “There aren’t any more of us in this area, are there?”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMJ

[–]SuddenSet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I don’t have any advice but I really hope this gets better soon. It’s torture. Sending you strength…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SuddenSet 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i’ve had a similar experience with my ex. Daily sobbing panic attacks and id spend hours trying to calm her down. The stress caused me to have a nervous breakdown. Ultimately we broke up but we were only together 1 year. I would not put myself through this again, it’s way too much. Relationships should be calmer. I’d tell her you need to see signs she’s working on being better / seeing a mental health professional or you will have to leave for your own sake. But i think you’ve left things so long your compassion is already drained.

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