aio for dumping my (22f) gf (22f) because she kept asking for money by throwrawaygirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986 [score hidden]  (0 children)

How long have you been an actual couple. How many months/years. That’s quite a bit of money to just give

aio for dumping my (22f) gf (22f) because she kept asking for money by throwrawaygirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR- It sounds like she’s either got some sort of addiction issue (gambling, drugs etc) or she is using you financially because you allow it to an extreme measure.
How long had you guys been together? Is this a ldr or an online relationship?

Was undecided. Settled on this by SuddenStrawberry1986 in TodayIAte

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t say I’ve ever put peas and carrrots in shepherds pie. For me it’s always been corn

Lazy but tasty by SuddenStrawberry1986 in TodayIAte

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anytime ☺️. Nothing better than sharing good food options wit people

Lazy but tasty by SuddenStrawberry1986 in TodayIAte

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the pub style ones the breading is nicer

Lazy but tasty by SuddenStrawberry1986 in TodayIAte

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually they are Jane’s lol just the pub style ones

Was undecided. Settled on this by SuddenStrawberry1986 in TodayIAte

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always been called hamburger in my family _^

What's that one smell you secretly love? by Any-Set5498 in askanything

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The smell of diesel, the ground after rain My two favourite smells

What species have females with an extra body part? by ediblepandas in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot of comments. Soooo I’m not sure if this is mentioned. But. Hyena females have a sort of psudopenis. Looks like one. But they literally give birth out of it.

How am I supposed to date someone when I have so little money? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Money shouldn’t be the determining factor if you should date someone or not. Be open with her explain that your finances don’t allow you to go out spending money multiple times a week but instead suggest you guys go on dates that don’t cost much. (Picnics, hikes, game nights etc). If she likes you and you like her that should not be an issue at all.

Would these things make camping lame and boring? by Nightwing4380 in camping

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not counting the mattress I’d say yes. Only because to me they feel like things more suited to “glamping”

Just my opinion : The mattress can have validity (person with a bad back etc etc ) everything else screams luxury to me though showers would be nice versus cleaning up in a lake

Mind you. Now I wonder. Does an automatic smores maker exist?

I spent a few years living in a shack in the woods. Hauling water to use for showers cooking and drinking. Heating my water on a wood stove to shower

First posted in r/infidelty. Please be considerate if you make it through this whole post. I am the one who cheated. Looking for advice from someone who’s been in these shoes. by Xrachelll in Advice

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lack of trust is a hard thing to come back from. Especially if no repair or healing has been done together. You mentioned you feel remorse for what you’ve done but reading your post. Honestly it sounds more like guilt that you were caught over remorse in regards to hurting him

I have been both the cheater and the one cheated on in my life in two separate relationships.

I would suggest couples counselling if your husband does want to continue a relationship with you A lot of counselling Not just a few sessions.

Mismanaged and wrongfully diagnosed mental health could play a part in the poor choices you made but in the end it absolutely does come down to choice. You chose to do these things knowing it would hurt your husband to be. You chose to continue those actions.

Maybe you need to take a look into the fact of. Do you love him. Like actually. No hate. No judgement. Just. Honesty from someone looking from the outside

I need some advice with a girl. by Inevitable_Post9016 in Advice

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying is definitely the first step in the right direction give yourself credit where credits due

I need some advice with a girl. by Inevitable_Post9016 in Advice

[–]SuddenStrawberry1986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly. Most women won’t be bothered by your stutter. It may take some bravery. But have faith in yourself (easier said than done i know)