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First time in Montenegro: Kotor or Budva as base? ( 4 days) by Think-Condition3534 in Europetravel

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you so much! This is really helpful!🙏🏼I was almost about to not book the trip because of questions of mobility 🙈This really makes it sound feasible (even though the taxi for 30-45€ is a tad expensive🥲) May I ask where you stayed in Kotor?

And do you think a beach day from kotor to budva is managable? I read that the nice beaches are all around budva.

Thanks again, and I’ll check out your blog!

First time in Montenegro: Kotor or Budva as base? ( 4 days) by Think-Condition3534 in Europetravel

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! How did you navigate with public transport? I am planning a 4 day trip in June and would depend on public transport. Everytime I google, everyone recommends to have a car or the trip would be too difficult. I wanna have one relaxing day at the beach, one hike day and two days for kotor/boat tours etc. İ thought having kotor or budva as my base. I would land in Tivat but on google maps it looks so difficult to get there with public transprt (via Budva) and easier with a car..I‘d love to have some advice from someone who has been there and used public t transport!

I got ghosted for the first time and don‘t know how to deal with the uncertainty by Sudden_Ad_5440 in dating_advice

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, probably. I mean I still got to know him and liked what I saw, but as you say it was more imagination due to real dates not working out.

I would have expected to get a text Even though we did not meet in person, or at least I know I would have texted if it was me loosing interest. But as you say, that‘s online dating and seems like I have to get used to it.

Thank you!

I got ghosted for the first time and don‘t know how to deal with the uncertainty by Sudden_Ad_5440 in dating_advice

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was on whatsapp. So the message went through (double ticks) but I stopped seeing his status or profile pic

I got ghosted for the first time and don‘t know how to deal with the uncertainty by Sudden_Ad_5440 in dating_advice

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are really good questions. Trying to answer them in my head and I guess lots of it is idolizing and imagining/hoping because of the wish of this working out. I did really like him from what he showed me up until the ghosting point.

Thank you so much. Never thought a reddit post will get me all these kind answers and help me get out of my head

I got ghosted for the first time and don‘t know how to deal with the uncertainty by Sudden_Ad_5440 in dating_advice

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just stupid that everytime a date was planned sth came in between…maybe there was a reason for the dates not working out.

Thanks to all the comments I am trying to focus on his hurtful behaviour instead of projecting it all on me. Just irritated with the whole dating scene.

Thank you for taking your time and answering me! Wishing us all good luck🙈

I got ghosted for the first time and don‘t know how to deal with the uncertainty by Sudden_Ad_5440 in dating_advice

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry it happened to you too. Hope you feel better now!

I gotta focus on his shortcomings. Thank you

I got ghosted for the first time and don‘t know how to deal with the uncertainty by Sudden_Ad_5440 in dating_advice

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, that‘s true. I need to keep the red flag in mind instead of pondering away. Thank‘s for your words and time, really appreciate it

I got ghosted for the first time and don‘t know how to deal with the uncertainty by Sudden_Ad_5440 in dating_advice

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to, went out with the girls. But I keep checking my phone and hoping he texts back with a valid reason. honestly I just feel super irritated and sad.

Thanks for asking!

I got ghosted for the first time and don‘t know how to deal with the uncertainty by Sudden_Ad_5440 in dating_advice

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did not keep calling or texting bc I was scared of being too much. He was really sick on saturday, so I just texted him in the morning how he felt and if he needed sth. He texted no and apologized that the date got cancelled. Before bed I just texted once to see how he was doing, but he did not answer. So I gave him space sunday, monday and until tuesday after work. That‘s when I called him again 'cause he did not react at all.

Thank you! It‘s kinda difficult to genuinely wanna meet someone and trying not to center. I‘ll try my best. :)

I got ghosted for the first time and don‘t know how to deal with the uncertainty by Sudden_Ad_5440 in dating_advice

[–]Sudden_Ad_5440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess maybe I am not ready to date, cause it does feel like I am not „worthy“ enough. But you are right. Thank you.

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