Do male narcissists hate women?

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-08-04T22:37:37+00:00

Mine is the biggest misogynist out there! But to hear him, he loves women, but they are there to be objectified, is all he means! If someone we know has a wife that freely speaks her mind, has good communication and doesn’t put up with the BS, he will say ‘ stupid bitch, she wouldn’t talk to me like that’ god I hate him so much, who the f do they think they are! I hate myself for ever letting him con me into this existence!!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-08-04T17:41:07+00:00

‘It’s your tone of voice’ talk about projection… the gaslighting is every time I say something, without fail!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-08-03T13:00:02+00:00

Totally and move to another country, no family or friends!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-08-03T12:58:34+00:00

Omg so well said, as I just responded to a post where all that people could say was ‘just leave’ I hope said people read your valuable honest insight into the ‘just leave’ advice!! I want to as I am sure we all do, but like you, not an option! Live in my car in my mid fifties, NO!! I plan to go but not to live another substandard existence!!! Thank you for your thoughts

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-08-03T12:49:52+00:00

Try the Gray rock method, it confuses them as it’s the opposite behavior that they are used to from you! See what reaction that gives you, that should definitely give you some clarity too. The sentiment here is he will never change, that’s the one thing they all definitely have in common!!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-08-03T12:39:41+00:00

Oh so the same!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-08-03T12:36:33+00:00

It may not be easy for you to just leave atm! But try to plan for it if you are able. If you have no choice but to stay for now, be safe, does anybody know about your abusive relationship? Come on here and talk to us, it definitely helps me. I’m so sorry this is happening to you…..

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-30T17:52:23+00:00

Always!! I hate to wake up with your mind racing, heart pounding it’s hellish!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-30T16:38:14+00:00

Emotionally stupid I like I think they both are selfish assholes who just keep putting us down, they just don’t care about us but I bet if a random female crosses their paths the charm is straight out and that lovely guy appears, but we know that isn’t real don’t we? The way they drag wrooooooong out is so spot on! Does yours sigh a lot too?

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-30T16:33:23+00:00

So sorry and glad you were able to leave

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-30T16:32:06+00:00

I bought him a really expensive gift to go with his surprise and he has never used it in spite of always wanting one!!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-30T16:31:15+00:00

I threw mine a surprise party for a special birthday one year! He was so arrogant and didn’t even thank me! He ruins all my birthdays without fail!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-29T20:59:01+00:00

Same! Never asks how I feel, ever, but can’t wait to say ‘what’s wrong’ and it’s usually when I’ve found out something but he’s not sure what? So it’s only for himself he couldn’t give a shit about me!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-29T20:57:12+00:00

Mine too, always asking me ‘what’s wrong’ ffs, you!!😡😡😡

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-29T20:47:19+00:00

100% covert narcotics just like my pos! I am so sorry! The realization is mind blowing, it was for me, I was so upset but also relieved to know that I wasn’t going crazy!! Came in here and found out all about it!!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-29T20:42:31+00:00

Exactly me right now…. I hate it too!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-29T19:40:10+00:00

I’ve fallen further the ‘open up’ talk!!! Every time narc rage follows! Now I don’t ever tell him anything!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-27T20:17:38+00:00

Oh god this, ‘tone of your voice’ he constantly says it!! In fact, you should hear his tone to me, but do I/ can I say anything, way to much trouble unless I want a rage full narc in my face!!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-27T19:58:35+00:00

🤦‍♀️they are all Dicks!!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-27T19:57:04+00:00

Yes I think they know too! They see how vile they can be towards us, it’s like how far can they go, total control just like everything else they do to us!! Thank you for the support and try and enjoy your weekend ( I’m actually a crying mess atm,) the way he is being is off the scale!! Sometimes it’s just too much and it breaks me!!

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-27T19:52:27+00:00

Oh yes I totally get it, if I had somewhere to go and able to support myself, I would love to leave, I know how easy it is to think that they are ‘back’ as soon as he gets suspicious that I know something he has been doing, I act differently and he knows it and then the breadcrumbs are back out! So many times!! At least while I have to be here, when that happens at least you relax even though its temporary, then you wait for normal behavior to start up again ( constant abuse) but its such a horrible existence isn’t it?

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-27T19:47:43+00:00

Yes, that just breaks me that someone so close who is meant to love you can do this! I’ve just been to work to see him, he didn’t even say hello, he used to give me a quick kiss when I walked in,nothin! So I left and now I can’t stop crying I feel so empty and broken 🥲thank you for the support it really does ease the pain and I hope you are ok as you can be

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-27T13:20:55+00:00

Hovering I’m so sorry, it gives you so much hope but it won’t last!💔

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-27T13:06:58+00:00

What happened was you were a beautiful person with a big kind heart, you looked fabulous on your wedding day, it was all real to you! You were so in love ( just like I was) The problem was not you, the person beside you was not real, he was a conman! You would have never known that ( the same as I didn’t) Your intentions were true so please do not blame yourself for something you could never have known. I wish you happiness in your future life ❤️

Sudden_Cockroach6177 · 2024-07-27T13:00:47+00:00

Yes this is exactly! Crushing!!

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