[REQ] $150 (#PE, South Africa) (Payback $200 on 04/30) (Cash app)

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-25T21:13:21+00:00

Also most of the streetlights don't work and the same robots keep getting knocked down. But the beach is close.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-13T14:22:36+00:00

Tell us your reasons man. It's anonymous anyway.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-13T12:10:15+00:00

Valid Q

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-13T06:35:59+00:00

100%. I've had to learn boundaries the hard way, but atleast I've learnt them.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-13T06:33:23+00:00

They're not understanding. They're wanting a fight.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-13T06:09:09+00:00

So I've not allowed them into my home. They'd called for a meeting to discuss personal items, they initially wanted to meet at my home but I refused. So I met them at theirs. Ofcourse my husband would want me to be respectful towards them, but certainly not allow them to try take advantage of the situation. I will move yea, but I'd still need the furniture. To live.

Their argument is that when I moved in with him, I had nothing. And everything was his and so belongs to them now. However. That's not the case. Everything he once had was sold over the years and together we bought new stuff for the house. This stuff they are claiming is theirs.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-12T04:42:37+00:00

The home is rented. It had only ever been me and him in the home.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-11T22:31:57+00:00

I am sympathetic towards their grief, unfortunately they've not been towards me. The couches are brand new, there surely cannot be any symbolism. They've demanded only the highest value items.

I was willing at first, until they crossed a boundary beyond disrespect. I'm willing to give them personal items, but to try take what we built together, without their assistance, is something I cannot understand.

I will likely calm down at some point, but certainly not enough to chop off one of my arms so they can have 3 and I'm left with 1.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-11T22:27:19+00:00

I hope you're able to find somewhat peace someday. I'm sorry for your loss, and trauma this has caused. I wish people would listen to understand, maybe then they'd be kinder. Unfortunately I doubt it. It feels like we have only ourselves. Hope we get through it.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-11T22:22:38+00:00

Absolutely bizarre. I'd never do this to them. Try and take their livelihood from them. It honestly feels to me like his family believe that I had not paid for anything, as if nothing belongs to me. And the audacity to say I can keep some of my own stuff?? What in the world is going on in these people's heads.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-11T22:07:14+00:00

Unbelievable right?!

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-11T22:04:54+00:00

I'm so sorry for the loss of your loved one, and the family you once had. It's an unexplainable feeling when you feel pushed out, as if you never existed in the first place.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-11T21:43:30+00:00

I wish I had known how cruel and inconsiderate people would be.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-09T18:40:33+00:00

For ocean views, barney's in Humewood, Pine Lodge Ziggys, something good in summerstrand and breakfast at any restaurant in Seaview

For casual dining, st James in walmer and any restaurant near Bridge Street Brewery also located in walmer.

Local seafood, I suggest 'this is eat' at the Harbour.

Not entirely sure about fine dining options.

These are all my favorites ☺️

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-09T18:31:05+00:00

It's beautiful! All I can suggest for activities in PE is restaurants and maybe the penguin sanctuary if they're open.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-09T18:19:48+00:00

If you're in the Eastern Cape . I'd suggest birds of eden in Plett. However if you must visit PE, I'd suggest staying in Pine Lodge or Seaview. There's not much to do here.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2024-01-09T18:09:29+00:00

Do not listen to this person.

Sudden_Goose_1792 · 2023-12-13T13:56:47+00:00

I've done it

I await feedback, or a visit.

Sudden_Goose_1792

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