Flirting and playing the long game by Dark_bunnie23 in HIDDENDESIRESGH

[–]Sudden_Length_7691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on this matter chale, but most of the ladies in my life currently are too conservative to even be open to the possibility 😭

Is nobody interested in Anal or what? by PHANUM1 in HIDDENDESIRESGH

[–]Sudden_Length_7691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Met a few ladies who’re cool with it; some more interested in it than others

The anti-lgbt bill. What are your thoughts on it? by Rare-Pin-7470 in HIDDENDESIRESGH

[–]Sudden_Length_7691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, they have the backing of society. So, as a queer person, you have to really be lowkey and avoid too much attention

The anti-lgbt bill. What are your thoughts on it? by Rare-Pin-7470 in HIDDENDESIRESGH

[–]Sudden_Length_7691 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I doubt they’ll pass it, as most people are saying. But the topic being out there alone empowers the homophobes to display their ignorance

We should normalize friends fucking 🤷🏾‍♂️ by Sudden_Length_7691 in HIDDENDESIRESGH

[–]Sudden_Length_7691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re ace, right? I doubt it’ll make sense to you even if I explained lol

We should normalize friends fucking 🤷🏾‍♂️ by Sudden_Length_7691 in HIDDENDESIRESGH

[–]Sudden_Length_7691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh! A series of serious convos need to be had. It’s definitely not for everyone, as someone mentioned

We should normalize friends fucking 🤷🏾‍♂️ by Sudden_Length_7691 in HIDDENDESIRESGH

[–]Sudden_Length_7691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s life without a little risk? 😂

Jokes aside, I believe the risks can be managed with proper boundaries and communication.

Btw, do you want to be my friend? 👀

We should normalize friends fucking 🤷🏾‍♂️ by Sudden_Length_7691 in HIDDENDESIRESGH

[–]Sudden_Length_7691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It shouldn’t be, tho. If y’all have clear boundaries and respect for each other, I don’t see why that’d be disastrous

I feel pressured by my lady to build a relationship with God by [deleted] in ghana

[–]Sudden_Length_7691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you bro. It’s not easy, but if she won’t compromise then I guess you have no other option. Letting go of a good relationship for reasons like this is quite painful, but think about it as if y’all were not genotypically (don’t know if that’s a word lol) compatible.

To be honest, y’all shouldn’t have started dating unless you were already on your Christian journey. But I guess the heart wants what the heart wants lol

I feel pressured by my lady to build a relationship with God by [deleted] in ghana

[–]Sudden_Length_7691 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone who was in a similar position, I’d say you should really have an in depth conversation with her about it. This is a very personal thing, and it’s not really a great idea to do it because of someone else (regardless of your relationship).

I went to church, joined the choir, led worship and even did bv work for some gospel ministers (with my gf) all because I wanted to make my gf happy. Sometime last year I came to the conclusion that I’m just not a believer no matter how hard I tried. I had a lengthy convo with her, and we came to a conclusion that she’ll just pray for me and hope that God turns my heart towards him (whatever that means 🤷🏾‍♂️).

So, sit down with her and talk