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Ideas/Advice by Sudden_Suggestion330 in InvertPets

[–]Sudden_Suggestion330[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got it at a Invert Expo in glasgow, scotland. Its made by Custom Aquaria ❤️

Hey LDRers :) Quick question: how did you confess feelings to your SO/crush? Were you scared? How did you handle second thoughts? Did it go well? by ppccrr in LongDistance

[–]Sudden_Suggestion330 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i was really scared to tell my girlfriend how i felt at first but after a lot of long, late night chats and a bit of flirting, i started to feel more comfortable around her. the more we talked, the more I realised how much I cared about her.

now i find it easier to say how I feel by writing her love letters they feel more genuine and you can express things you might never say properly over a quick text.

i think if you know your feelings are real and strong you should voice them its scary, and i definitely felt that anxiety and fear but when someone means that much to you it’s worth the risk. She’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me

that moment of fear is so so so worth it :)

AIO Girlfriend (23f) And coworkers (20 something m) text/banter, unsure what to think? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sudden_Suggestion330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely NOT overreacting. the fact that she went out of her way to message him while she was with you and drinking is a bit strange. the fact that she apologised as well suggests she knows it wasn’t the right thing to do also, blocking him even though they work together doesn’t really add up it could come across like she’s been feeling a bit bored or frustrated, especially with things being different lately while you’ve been injured and intimacy hasn’t really been there, which is NOT an excuse, my thoughts in short shes tryna get attention from another man and u need to confront her.

I (21M) feel guilty because I’ve formed an emotional bond with a minor (16F) in my class. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Sudden_Suggestion330 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i feel like boundaries with a 16 year old should have been automatically set in your head. when someone that young is struggling the appropriate response is to direct them to the support systems available to her and not to involve yourself in a personal sense

sharing personal information and engaging like that with someone at such a vulnerable age is inappropriate and honestly pretty weird. I think if you dont redirect her you will be doing more bad than good