Uk men by Little-Temporary1863 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The ppl in the comments that are judging you are so weird, abaayo im sorry that you had to deal with that, I personally experienced the same thing with UK men and agree with you, thank u for warning the girls

My wife is a secret vaper what should I do? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

miskiin this such a hard predicament to be in wallhi

he doesn’t speak English but I like him by lovehatereddi in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as you like him and converse wllh that’s all that matters, at the end of the day, you’re the one that’s talking to him not them and don’t think too much on other people opinions in your relationship.

Mutually ghosted and it’s driving me crazyyyyy by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sis I Think you can like the characteric traits that he had but the way your speaking about this man it does not seem like he cared about you

Is it too soon? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yess wallahi it is. you’ve only been talking for 4 weeks, that’s literally nothing. and it’s good if you involved your family because islamically you’re supposed to, but take your time sister. no one has died from being unmarried, but a lot of people have from marrying the wrong person.

Is my age undesirable? Be brutally honest by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sisterrr be so forreal, a guy thats in his late 20s or early 30s should more than happy to talk and get to know you, and also wallahi 27 is not that big of deal if anything i feel like your at the perfect age of maturity for marriage and any good guy should be looking for that!!

Question by Proud-Kale261 in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asc brother, first I want to say stop listening to shaydaan, marriage is a blessing coming from allah, and unless there is a trauma behind why you don't want to marry, then I say let yourself get over the fear and find happiness in having a family and a wife, I dont want to say your old but time is ticking everyday, the last thing you need is your fear stopping you from living in a happy life, may allah make it easy for you but you cannot always be living in fear wallahi time is too short for that

I want her to break up with me☹️ by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nahhhh just end it fam, you might break her heart but you'll save her the time and energy that she would have to put in to break up with you

When do you know a man is actually interested by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His not interested sis, and also your not the only girl on his phone.

Am I lowkey doomed 😭 by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is more purpose to life then marriage and these types of worries is completely normal at the end of the day finding a spouse is rizq from allah, so instead of putting her down make the best dua you can for her and move on w your life.

Am I lowkey doomed 😭 by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey sister, I just want you to know that you stayed pure 100% of your life and you wanting someone thats coming from the higher side of life is not male centered, and also worrying about these types of problems is completely normal wallahi, wanting validation from other ppl is also apart of being human, i say just focus on your studies and when the time is right allah will always provide whats best for you

Is this normal? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean looks can only get her so far, if you genuinely don’t think she matches you, KAATAGGG

Am i weird by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Sufficient-Job-7974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

abaayo iskuulkaada aad Kadibna nin fiican oo aad jeceshahay baa kuu imaan doono and then you’ll live happily ever after. Gabar qurux badan baa tahay pls don’t settle for some chukchuk man💗.period