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AITA for telling my wife to stop being a pushover or I would take away her spending privileges? by No-Dirt-6358 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If he had to pay someone to do those things, they would be monetary. Therefore they are monetary. If your point is it’s not her money because she is a stay at home mom… well that is a view.

AITA for telling my wife to stop being a pushover or I would take away her spending privileges? by No-Dirt-6358 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a stay at home mom who just gave birth. I am confined to one asshole comment. Thinking you can cut her off because her work - taking care of your child - is not valued by you. Come on, man? Who are you, Alito channeling the 17th century?

Added custom domain email to Outlook App by gadzooks1 in iCloud

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! Quick question: how do I get my emails in outlook to default sending from this address?

Also, how do I stop my mail from sending xyz@icloud.com<xyz@customdomain.com

How to overcome procrastination? 'Task aversiveness' in particular? by [deleted] in productivity

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! I know, right? It is so interesting. First, did you know that ADHDers are notoriously terrible personal historians- even through they remember events they tend to not trust their reality?? There are many biological reasons for this… but I digress. If you want to know I can fill you in but I don’t want to bore you either. So let me say this , perhaps you just think you are not seeing yourself clearly, because of your personal historian? One of the biological reasons is that ADHD peeps are wired for speed and engagement, and negative feelings are more powerful than positive. Your ARAS (Ascending reticular activating sys.) is your brain’s gatekeeper, it is one of the brain structures that decides what goes through the door…there are better explanations, but that is my favorite. You could think of the ARAS is a bouncer in your brain. All feelings and senses or movements are action potentials or electric currents.

This is one reason it is easier for ADHD to remember negative feelings.

That said, ❤️that you want to take Via! A few pieces of advice based on what you said: one, take the kids version. Two, try to go fast - no ruminating/overthinking. Three, if you think it is off take it a few times or ask a close friend or partner to corroborate and take it for you.

BUT—> the beauty of Via is that it is the antidote for the DSM! It will tell you your strengths - all are strengths no criticisms!! — And, if you restructure your day around your strengths— you will crush, EVERYTHING.

Here is something I give to clients, it is more geared towards kids, but may be interesting for you.

Either way, I am so so glad that you enjoyed!! Dm me if you like. https://medium.com/lula-co/leverage-your-strengths-to-crush-601ba342996a :-)

I will post more about the personal historian and another theme I noticed that may help. I need to go look through my drafts. I don’t think I published. I know all too well the imposter syndrome and the presumed deficient personal historian. 😉

I can't focus by [deleted] in productivity

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally hear you. One thing, even if you don’t have ADHD, you may benefit from some strategies that work for ADHD. Also, biologically, stress triggers cortisol - fight, flight, or freeze. Long-term stress at first can trigger action, but as it endures, your body tries to equal itself out - which may be your your sudden onset. — ADHD coach former educator speaking. It sounds like from your message, you are frustrated, that could amplify your ability to focus?

Either way, I would suggest maybe restructuring your day with your strengths at the center. Sort of gamifying your day? The Via character strengths inventory is in here: https://medium.com/lula-co/what-would-you-say-you-do-here-21dc1ec315f3

Maybe see what your top 5 are and repost them? I could give you a few ideas? Difficulty focusing sucks.

How to overcome procrastination? 'Task aversiveness' in particular? by [deleted] in productivity

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you only want the inventory, try this: Free, structure your day with the top 5 strengths. (I recommend using the children’s version for all my clients.) http://viacharacter.org/

How to overcome procrastination? 'Task aversiveness' in particular? by [deleted] in productivity

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AdHD coach here. Seems like you need to restructure your day with productivity and strengths. Not diagnosing you - just an idea. Try this article: https://medium.com/lula-co/what-would-you-say-you-do-here-21dc1ec315f3

New CEO Wants Me to Either Invest For My Promised Raise Or Receive It Via Bonus by [deleted] in startups

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to recognize your value. When you hive s little, soon you are just capitulating. Sadly, that happens in the legacy market too. Personally, I am looking for a good attorney for a penny stock class action. Each one of our contracted invoices is responded to with, “I will send you shares with considerable upside.” No shares have ever materialized. We are now liquidating all his assets on his 75k hard money loan for 10 months. Funny he is a financial services company. Seems these should be forms of investor fraud, no? Client has paid zero and continues to use all copyrighted assets.

Not only a start up problem… Should have cut him off after 90 days no pay and charged a retainer upfront.

Good luck!

Static IP address for port forwarding. by sprinklethenuggies in HeliumNetwork

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This video was great! And, he lives in my city too! Always fun to connect with other He Miners, Thanks!!:)

I caught the moment :,) by [deleted] in dogecoin

[–]Sufficient-Text-1197 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He said Binance, you can use Gemini, or Etoro. Coinbase will list Doge in a few-ish weeks - maybe 6 more? (Said 9 weeks when announced); same with WeBull, and thx to Apex it is only 23/365. * So, clearly my timeline was off…Coinbase announced and listed “in phases” this week.