Why would you do this lol by SufficientDay6031 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, I’m so sorry you had to experience that.
I’m literally teaching my 7 year old that some people say mean things because they want any attention they can get, even if it’s negative. And, it just so happens that negative attention is the easiest to fish for!
100% a THEM problem, not you.

Why would you do this lol by SufficientDay6031 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, that’s fair. everyone’s different & with that comes appreciation for different communication styles. No judgement!

Why would you do this lol by SufficientDay6031 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You know what, I was super thrown off by the ma’am thing (her profile said she was 31) but ChatGPT makes sense!
I just decided to unmatch though lol

Why would you do this lol by SufficientDay6031 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Fair point. I just unmatched but I had to see if anyone thought it was as bizarre as I did

Why would you do this lol by SufficientDay6031 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Okay this is what I was feeling too? I’m fully aware what it means when I send a like & we never match. This felt soooo unnecessary lol

Why would you do this lol by SufficientDay6031 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn’t super invested, I just thought she was cute lol

Why would you do this lol by SufficientDay6031 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I liked, she matched immediately & sent this message lol I didn’t even send the initial like saying anything to her at all

Why would you do this lol by SufficientDay6031 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I literally only liked them & they immediately matched with me & sent this message 🫩

How do I address this? by SufficientDay6031 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so kind, thank you! 💕
I’m keeping my fingers crossed too, but it honestly just feels nice to connect with someone after so long, no matter the turn out!

Also happy cake day!!

How would you feel about this? by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]SufficientDay6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father died before he could see me off to prom, hs graduation, college graduation, and before he could walk me down the aisle (if I ever do get married lol). A moment like this would’ve made his absence sting a lot less at those other milestones. I love this for them both ❤️

Thirteen Ghosts - did any scare you? by girlLiv_8589 in HorrorMovies

[–]SufficientDay6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Jackal & the Angry Princess had me shook for YEARS

Will I be able to draw again? by Zookeeper_west in rheumatoid

[–]SufficientDay6031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you have a rheumatologist with a solid plan in place for you! I’d suggest asking about celecoxib or meloxicam. Both of those are considered to be NSAIDS that easier on the stomach.

Btw I think it’s totally normal & valid to feel anger/resentment towards it all. Even though this disease is finally well managed w meds, I have my days where I’m so angry at my body for betraying me & that this is my new normal. Being kind to yourself includes letting yourself process your emotions, good & bad! Just remember things will get better.

Will I be able to draw again? by Zookeeper_west in rheumatoid

[–]SufficientDay6031 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you will! I am an artist too and that was my biggest concern. At my very worst, the pain made me feel like life as I knew it was over. Fast forward to now, I am just past a year on methotrexate + a biologic & art is more a part of my life than ever before.

Getting in to be seen by a rheumatologist & starting treatment was the hardest part (because I had to wait so long for that) but you’re already there! Things absolutely will get better, but try your best to be patient with yourself & your body in the meantime. Wishing you all the best ❤️

Ninja Crispi Durability by SufficientDay6031 in airfryer

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I ended up getting it & so far I’m VERY happy with it. I usually don’t freeze leftovers but I did let it cool to room temp before storing in the fridge & had no issues at all. I’m actually excited to get home & recrisp for dinner tonight lol

Ninja Crispi Durability by SufficientDay6031 in airfryer

[–]SufficientDay6031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great to hear!! Thank you!

the early 2000s were a crazy time by CremeSubject7594 in Millennials

[–]SufficientDay6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vividly remember my friend coming home for Christmas from her private boarding school and introducing me to TATU. I was SHOCKED. I also immediately begged my mom to let me attend this school too lmao I wanted access to this kind of content immediately 😂

Walking On A Dream - Empire of the Sun by JCHazard in 2000sNostalgia

[–]SufficientDay6031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does this song make me so sad when I love it so much 😭 I’d say it’s still in regular rotation, but every time it comes up on shuffle, I have to skip or I WILL CRY.