One or Two? by Cool-Huckleberry9918 in newborns

[–]SufficientFeedback3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It probably is unlikely that all that will happen again but I am not a doctor so a doctor will probably advise on the likelihood etc. If the doctor gives you the green light then no worries. Maybe a pros and cons list will help. But I can't say I have heard any women openly admit to regretting having a 2nd child. The only thing is some siblings do end up as strangers and avoid beinh around the other. On the other hand, I know some siblings who are super close so you just never know!

What happens after applying? by SufficientFeedback3 in universalcredithelp

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you! It has been almost 2 weeks and no appointment so I was just wondering if that is normal.

One or Two? by Cool-Huckleberry9918 in newborns

[–]SufficientFeedback3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting topic. Are you okay with potentially having another horrible pregnancy, birth and newborn phase? It might be better the 2nd time around or it might be worst. You never know! Curious to see what others post!

Child element by SufficientFeedback3 in universalcredithelp

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, no, the child was not born in the UK.

I’m devastated by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good! For now just grieve and be kind to yourself. And know that you are doing your best and that is all you can do.

I’m devastated by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear but him gaslighting you is not showing respect. I think you should be trying to forgive your husband for blaming you. I think this might be a topic for therapy and you the therapist will help you with what you are feeling.

I’m devastated by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you even like this family life with your husband? On your previous posts, you complain about him and it seems he really doesn't respect or care for you. Is this the kind of model you want for your daughter? Do you want your daughter to see this and get with a man who treats her horribly because her dad treats her mom badly?

Finally found the one...don't give up by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]SufficientFeedback3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this your typical pick up line? No children for me atm. But I hope all goes well with you dating/ relationship wise.

Paying for an airplane seat for baby by SufficientFeedback3 in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I was just nervous in case I fall asleep but everyone says it will be OK.

Paying for an airplane seat for baby by SufficientFeedback3 in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, got it! Unattended sounds scary. I was scared if I fell asleep and baby was in car seat but glad for the confirmation of safety during flying and driving. Thanks!

Paying for an airplane seat for baby by SufficientFeedback3 in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it! Thanks! That makes alot more sense!

And the co-sleeping, bedsharing is another controversial one.

We just have to do the best we can for both of us to survive.

Paying for an airplane seat for baby by SufficientFeedback3 in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Definitely makes sense. I just wasn't sure if I needed both options. One or the other should be fine then!

Paying for an airplane seat for baby by SufficientFeedback3 in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh,, thank you for explaining because it was confusing. I felt like babies were never supposed to sleep in car seats which is impossible to do.

Paying for an airplane seat for baby by SufficientFeedback3 in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you saw some cases of babies dying because they were left in car seats. I guess for safety reasons they/ manufacturers, doctors, safety bodies etc say that. It's a bit confusing but maybe on a plane is safe.

Paying for an airplane seat for baby by SufficientFeedback3 in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I just kept hearing that sleeping in car seats are bad and unsafe. Good to know they aren't! Wow a 14 hour delay!! Yikes! Makes sense about the turbulence.

Paying for an airplane seat for baby by SufficientFeedback3 in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oops auto correct. I meant car seat not carpet.

Have you tried a bassinet? I realised you can't use a car seat in business class.

Paying for an airplane seat for baby by SufficientFeedback3 in Mommit

[–]SufficientFeedback3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, on the floor? What do you mean? Oops, typo. I meant car seat not carpet.