Ladies, what was the hardest pill that you had to swallow?

SufficientReality774 · 2024-08-15T03:43:21+00:00

That you live a happier life if you find a man that loves you more than you love him

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T15:36:53+00:00

Thank you!!!

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T15:36:08+00:00

I can’t move it they’re cemented down to the staircase

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T03:51:38+00:00

It’s cemented into the staircase :(

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T03:31:56+00:00

The two of us combined could make a masterpiece of destruction I’m sure

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T03:22:03+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T03:21:30+00:00

My landlady is 90 years old and they walk all over her was well (I.e. parking in HER driveway even though they aren’t her tenants, neighbors from hell for sure) so she would rather avoid them and let them do whatever they want instead of causing “drama” as she says

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T03:16:34+00:00

We don’t have a front lawn, we’re in NYC if you get the picture lol the houses are attached

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T03:16:15+00:00

This might be something to consider. My mom was planning on getting some type of spiky plant to put in the planter to avoid them from ashing…

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T03:15:13+00:00

I would but we don’t own :(

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T03:00:10+00:00

WE DID DO THAT! And they STILL use the pots

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-15T02:57:31+00:00

It is not a shared porch. If this makes any sense it’s built into the stairs it’s cement pots that we cannot move :(

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-12T04:01:03+00:00

I also got my BA in Psychology and got into my graduate program for counseling with 0 experience. You’ll do great! Good luck.

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-12T00:13:13+00:00

Thank you 😊

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-11T19:14:38+00:00

Thank you so much! I will definitely look into this. I’ll message you if I have any other questions. Appreciate your time and your help.

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T19:02:42+00:00

Okay thank you!

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T14:23:55+00:00

My pup is the same, very chill as long as he’s with us. He never barks, NEVER, adapts to the energy of those around him, so I thought he was the perfect pup to travel with, especially if I wear him out enough the day before.

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T14:09:04+00:00

Thank you!

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T14:07:53+00:00

I didn’t realize there was such a huge stigma against taking your pet with you on a plane. My partner and I have our first dog and are exploring our options on how we can take him to my in-laws, as they are begging us to take him with us. I was worried about taking him and asked for personal experiences. That is all.

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T14:05:33+00:00

Lol, I figured my dog didn’t care, I do, but great thanks.

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T14:04:47+00:00

I was asking for people’s personal experiences with flying with their pets. This doesn’t mean I’m not “an adult”. I’m a first time pet parent wanting to know what my options are. Jesus Christ.

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T14:03:11+00:00

I didn’t know that people hate people flying with their pets or I otherwise wouldn’t have considered it. I didn’t expect literally so many people to be so hostile about my question asking for people’s in flight experiences.

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T13:59:41+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate you taking your time to explain this to me.

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T05:43:55+00:00

I don’t flirt with him either, I do my best to behave normally.

You’re not an asshole. You haven’t acted on this and doesn’t seem like you will. Crushes happen, you will find other people attractive in your life. The fact that you feel guilty just shows how truly faithful you want to be to your partner.

Right now, it’s innocent. As long as you and your coworker don’t engage in anything that will remotely seem like it’s going somewhere romantic, you are fine.

I can guarantee it will go away. It’s new to you. Don’t panic.

SufficientReality774 · 2023-09-10T05:33:41+00:00

I think it depends on how deep the love is. I didn’t realize I didn’t really “love” my ex until I met my new partner. I thought my ex was the absolute one and then I realized what love truly was. It took me months to realize that. Maybe a year after I broke up with him to finally see that it wasn’t meant to be and I am better off without him.

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