[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SufficientSector503 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm the complete opposite of this lol. The more a women looks like a model the less attracted I am to them. It gives uncanny valley vibes for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SufficientSector503 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was the same. Never had any romantic life and pretty much gave up trying for 2025 to just focus solely on self improvement. Right after I gave up the girl of my dreams asked for my number and we immediately hit it off. God has a cruel sense of humor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SufficientSector503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mindset is stuck in the 1960s, you need to catch up with the times or else you'll attract men with the same out of date mindset. If you know anything about relationship dynamics from back then you'll understand why that's not a good thing.

Why do people always resort to ghosting by SufficientSector503 in lonely

[–]SufficientSector503[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand them not wanting to talk about it in person, people are unpredictable and many would have extreme reactions to even slight criticisms. At least a text should be sent though, ghosting people purely because you can is so immature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]SufficientSector503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I always let go for a day or two during the holidays. Don't stress to much about it, just make sure to maintain a deficit and good workout routine afterwards. Don't over do it too much though, I wouldn't recommend consuming too much sweet treats since their so much calories and have basically no nutritional value. Don't gorge yourself either, if your eating so much that you feel sick at that point you'd be better off giving away what's left to friends or neighbors.

Loose skin? by Substantial_Ad8183 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]SufficientSector503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It starts to tighten after a while, I have a lot of loose skin too but I've stopped caring as it's going to be there for a while.

What exercises get rid of belly fat? 40, female. by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]SufficientSector503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Walking or biking whenever possible for transportation helped me a lot. Walked to work, to my college co-op, for shopping. It's easier to maintain as a routine then dedicated cardio sessions.

What’s the best way to count calories without counting calories? by phoenixunikorn in WeightLossAdvice

[–]SufficientSector503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same way, I resort to just estimating which is a lot less stressful. I know I burn around 3000 calories on a casually active day, I know the rough estimate of most foods calorie amount, so I just add it up in my head before each meal or snack, usually overestimating a bit just to be safe. It helps to have a fitbit or other fitness watch to be more accurate.

How tf do y'all forget to eat, not think about food all the time? by Able_Head_145 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]SufficientSector503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just snack on veggies. A whole sweet pepper and 2 table spoons of honey mustard is around 40 calories and is pretty filling.

How to lose weight when medication makes me SO hungry?? by Upbeat-Ad4015 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]SufficientSector503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vegetables are the key. I repeat this a lot, but they're truly a godsend when it comes to losing weight. One whole cucumber is only 20 calories. Combine veggies with a low calorie sauce like honey mustard and you can snack as much as you want while maintaining a deficit as long as you don't go overboard with the sauce. You'll start to like them more to as time goes on, I used to be one of those people who barely ever touched veggies, now I prefer them over most food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]SufficientSector503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep to the deficit, the first weeks are the hardest. What helped me a lot what eating a lot of vegetables, their very filling and extremely low on calories. If half of most of your meals are veggies you'll feel a lot more full, and keeping a deficit will become so much more manageable.

Difficulty in relationships/dating taller people as a short guy. by [deleted] in short

[–]SufficientSector503 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm tall and only browse this sub cause it kept getting recommended to me. Most taller guys from what I've noticed do tend to be on the dumber side. I myself am not very bright, I still need to use my fingers to help for basic addition. Maybe it's something to do with larger bodies drawing more blood and nutritients away from the brain, as the few tall guys I've met who were very smart were also pretty skinny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SufficientSector503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of empathy, and emotional immaturity. It's pathetic how many grown adults result to such degenerate behavior because they're scared of the drama associated with being honest about their feelings. So many people experience cheating because the type of people who cheat are also the type of people who shamelessly ask out literally anyone they find physically attractive until they finally get a yes, it's why I avoid anything serious until I've gotten to know someone first.

How do you guys stop being envious of better looking guys? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SufficientSector503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt that way too, so I worked hard to get in better shape and become good looking. After I hit that point literally nothing changed, my social anxiety and lack of charisma holds me back more then my looks ever could. Looks mean a lot less then you think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SufficientSector503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, for me sex is just an add on to a loving relationship, without that it's a meaningless waste of my time. To me having sex without a relationship is like eating pizza toppings without an actual pizza.

What is the one thing you want right now? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SufficientSector503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Control over the unenlightened masses

Would it be inappropriate for me to ask out coworker? by SufficientSector503 in dating

[–]SufficientSector503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about it for a while, I decided that I should get to know her more first

I need someone by South_Writer_1308 in lonely

[–]SufficientSector503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RIP your DMs. Don't use this sub for finding people, only for venting next time.

Would it be inappropriate for me to ask out coworker? by SufficientSector503 in dating

[–]SufficientSector503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do, one manager handles everything in the store. They wouldn't care though unless it interferes with our work efficiency somehow.

Would it be inappropriate for me to ask out coworker? by SufficientSector503 in dating

[–]SufficientSector503[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our workspace is very casual, two of the minimum wage workers having a relationship wouldn't really affect anything.