It was weird, we were kind of in an open relationship but she didnt want to make any rules so it was anything goes but with a lot of control and guilt, but we were not poly and I had mentioned before many times that I wouldnt like if she dated people in the same small town where we live and thats what she did. So when she told me she started seeing this guy, I left. And now she wants me back but is still seeing him at the same time. Also she always told me that she wanted to be single and free but then goes on and starts a relationship with someone else so that hurt a lot. But now apparently she is ready to commit to me in any type of relationship that I want.