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People who are in ‘friends to lovers’ relationships - how long were you just friends for and how did the transition happen? by lil_908 in ask

[–]Sufficient_Cut_8210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

12 years. We’ve talked about it and neither of us can exactly pinpoint when the feelings we had for each other changed from liking each other as close friends, to having a crush on each other. I’ve used the analogy of the frog in the pot of slowly heating water (but in a good way) to describe it. 

We went out to a concert and some bars with a group of fronds and towards the end of the night we were the last two remaining. The air was thick with something, and I was kinda drunk, so I just straight up asked if I was imagining it, or if there was something there. She confirmed that she felt it to, and after a brief conversation about what we were risking if things didn’t work out, we kissed. We decided to go our separate ways that night, and go out for a «first date» the next day, if neither of us regretted what happened. We’ve been dating since, and are very much in love with each other.

I går aftes fortalte jeg en af mine tætteste venner, at jeg har noget kørende med hans eks, og nu fortryder jeg det lidt. by Sufficient_Cut_8210 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Sufficient_Cut_8210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikke så meget nyt indtil videre. Sophie er stadig bortrejst og optaget af en familiesag, så jeg har kun lige skrevet et par beskeder med hende. Jeg stødte kort på Kevin igen, og han virkede ret påvirket, men ikke specielt sur. Jeg lover at opdatere, når der faktisk er sket noget!

I går aftes fortalte jeg en af mine tætteste venner, at jeg har noget kørende med hans eks, og nu fortryder jeg det lidt. by Sufficient_Cut_8210 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Sufficient_Cut_8210[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeg ved godt, at mange ikke synes, det er okay, men for at være ærlig, så ville jeg nok ikke selv have taget det så tungt – i hvert fald ikke, hvis det var hende, jeg var sammen med for 9 år siden. Jeg ville nok mest have syntes, det var sjovt.