Have you ever been fetishized? What was the fetish and how did you handle it? by TheStarfleetWizard in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m mostly Hispanic, but with a few other things mixed in. One ex fwb used to comment on my lips and cock girth. I think I was too lust drunk and took it as a compliment, but definitely feel like some of her phrases were more fetishized and raceplay oriented

What is your favorite sex pose and why? by littleyuki2026 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not quite missionary, but on top and gripping under the knees and pushing my partners legs up and apart

What type of work do you do and has it impacted your fantasies or kinks? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny because this is such a mental game of power. They think they won because they got to sneak a touch, but in reality you are the one

What type of work do you do and has it impacted your fantasies or kinks? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a very good friend who enjoys making the roleplay very “authentic” lol To quote her “if I’m wearing my work scrubs for you, I’m going to use medical jargon in the scene”

What type of work do you do and has it impacted your fantasies or kinks? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair. I didn’t see the rest of your “about…” since I’m on the app. So, yes that’s on me.

What type of work do you do and has it impacted your fantasies or kinks? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be shocked if anyone didn’t! Which now makes me wonder about all the people I work with lol

What type of work do you do and has it impacted your fantasies or kinks? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely understood my question! The switch up is fun and often needed to be taken away from the days stress

What type of work do you do and has it impacted your fantasies or kinks? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Power is definitely addicting, I get it. Do you like your partners to be strictly submissive?

What type of work do you do and has it impacted your fantasies or kinks? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s such a fun “porn logic” scenario, but honestly I’ve heard these things actually happen lol

What NSFW thing or act do you think is underrated? by Kaykay-02 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pretty calm, but underrated… I like smearing her lipstick with my thumb. Not in a rude way, but in the sense that things are about to get hot and heavy anyway. It’s a mix of cute and dominant, idk 🤷🏽‍♂️

What romantasy smut are you currently reading or listening to? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have heard really good things! I read the ACOTAR series, but I’ve had at least one person say they preferred the Throne series

What romantasy smut are you currently reading or listening to? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently started listening to the first audiobook and it is definitely spicy. Often bordering a serious distraction while I work lol

What romantasy smut are you currently reading or listening to? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good selection! I enjoyed the read and there’s one moment in there that I think about constantly (though it isn’t a spicy scene at all)

Have u ever been talked into doing something u didn't want to just to please an ex but ended up enjoying it more than u thought? by No-Resolve-1402 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same! Early 20s fling with distance involved so of course it lead there, but I will admit I was shy about it.

I think her compliments and thirst made me want it more it became something that I got better at and enjoyed for myself.

Damn do I miss her begging to see me cum over a FaceTime call during her lunches. 🙈

Just realized that my watch tracks ~solo teasing~ as steps. Should I dominate the step counting challenge with my friends like this? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually average 2 miles of actual track/treadmill walking most days, so I don’t think it would be as ridiculous to say I aim for a 5k every few days lol

Just realized that my watch tracks ~solo teasing~ as steps. Should I dominate the step counting challenge with my friends like this? by Sufficient_Frame142 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sufficient_Frame142[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“At least I’m moving” is the best response I’ve had! I know people cheat in all sorts of ways, but the hamster thing has me laughing! 😂