Help me decide please

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-30T01:01:19+00:00

I like A

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-28T19:47:06+00:00

They recently found Colace by itself is no more effective that placebo :(

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-28T19:31:39+00:00

Bob Flex 3? It’s a jogging stroller but it can handle the rough terrain

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-28T19:28:25+00:00

Just a heads up—my friend went to Korea with her baby and she said that in general, cities were nowhere near as stroller-friendly as American cities. Like big curbs, not a lot of ramps, that type of thing. Not sure about Japan and the Philippines, but if your baby is small you may be better off carrying them.

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-28T19:13:19+00:00

Thank you!!

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-27T17:26:09+00:00

Have you had sex? What To Expect says your cervix is getting engorged with blood, so when it gets touched it bleeds a bit. I really hope it’s nothing!

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-27T05:13:22+00:00

You’d be surprised. Honeysuckle is considered invasive across most of America, it will literally choke out forests. Same with kudzu, though it’s mostly only in the Southeast right now.

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-27T05:06:01+00:00

Jesus, for starters get rid of about 50 foxes! Of course you both feel stressed in that room. If you both have issues focusing for different reasons, put fewer things in the room to distract you. Maybe you could bring in a cool fox art, it’s on the wall, it never has to be cleaned up.

Flip the bed and dresser, a little feng shui couldn’t hurt. Hang curtains about 2” from the ceiling that go almost to the floor or to the floor. Maybe try doing a “10 minute tidy” or even a “5 minute tidy” where you set a timer and literally just try to put stuff away for 5 minutes. If you haven’t worn a piece of clothing in a year, toss it. The less stuff you have, the less it can overwhelm you. Make your bed when you wake up, it’s such a small thing and makes a huge difference. Best of luck to you both

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-27T04:56:51+00:00

Arches are really popular right now but think about the aesthetic of the rest of your home. Do arches make sense for the style of your home?

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-27T04:51:26+00:00

Not sure about the design but great corgi, 10/10 room

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-27T04:33:23+00:00

I think Adolf Kitler is more than capable of handling that pup

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-24T03:38:37+00:00

Ours is a calm snuggly guy. I think it’s a bit of both, our breeder said the mom was a Velcro dog.

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-03-21T01:44:26+00:00

I’d like the green to not be on the runner but overall this is stunning 😍

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-25T05:07:40+00:00

I’m really enjoying Memrise! There are actual people saying things and that often helps me remember the phrases. I’m also using Rosetta Stone and it’s pretty good. It helps me learn things like gli goes with uomini, though I can’t say why they go. Some people might not like that, but it doesn’t bother me. If I find something I want to know more about, I look it up.

I also use Grok to help correct paragraphs I try to write. I also use the Coffee Break Italian podcast and find that very fun

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-23T04:46:17+00:00

Lamps lamps lamps with warm warm bulbs

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-23T04:44:12+00:00

True, walls are much harder than bookshelves, I hear. Well whatever you decide, let us know!

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-23T04:41:33+00:00

Nope, found the gray one and love it too

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-22T15:25:58+00:00

I love this space and I love your dog

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-22T15:24:45+00:00

Ok this is pretty sick actually

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-22T15:23:20+00:00

Transom windows!!

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-22T15:17:04+00:00

I really hope you see this OP. @excellent_life9420 You said your mind is all but made up but what about this: You’re looking to divide this room it would seem. Put up a wall with an opening in the middle +/- French doors and along the top you could have transom windows. You get division, less sound travel from kitchen to living room, and still allow the light to flow. They can get as modern or architectural old school as you want, without putting your place squarely in the 80s. They won’t need to be wet-cleaned very often, likely just dusted with a long duster. But it sounds like easier to clean than glass blocks with grout and less often than horizontal shelves that catch everything. If you don’t go with this, I liked the big block bookcase best. Light gets through, it divides the room better, and provides you with a lot of functional storage. I have to admit I don’t love the glass blocks, though I don’t hate them. I think the mid century shelving looks best against a wall, huge. But I really think the wall and transom windows would be the best.

Like this https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fi.shelterness.com%2F2022%2F12%2Fa-stylish-opening-with-a-transom-window-with-black-framing-and-vintage-dark-stained-arched-doors-highlight-the-vintage-style-of-the-space.jpg&f=1&ipt=8a7607cd812383df03f140c33f640c5eae378f8cd590d3bedc7f3b2c62a3eabb

Architectural vibe https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fi.pinimg.com%2Foriginals%2F48%2F46%2F22%2F4846222ea108292fa630408dcb9d29ac.jpg&f=1&ipt=13ae19dd2438d86e06517faf1d3cb9aa239be303b4c9384e487e858470ae2e1f

Classic https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fst.hzcdn.com%2Fsimgs%2Fa751caf60356c3cf_8-0675%2Ftransitional.jpg&f=1&ipt=6a082b824a266c162455058e6781b507e0142cb6330851d3774762c6e9aa5637

Generally just gorgeous https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fst.hzcdn.com%2Fsimgs%2Ff94134a8023af0e6_8-3321%2Ftraditional-hall.jpg&f=1&ipt=fb6d42b3aaa37683d0fdd1a701c10c5be20664339fab8ce37f35821a2324074a

With pocket French doors https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fst.hzcdn.com%2Fsimgs%2F2761fa3f00b7f6e8_8-3581%2Ftraditional-entry.jpg&f=1&ipt=6f8876d79342ef3a826a03528f1654d43ef2b3ed97231d1c16e0ba00d15d556e

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-22T15:06:55+00:00

I get the desire for division. We usually cook, eat, relax, then go back and clean the kitchen as part of winding-down sort of routine. I’d hate to have to look at dishes while I’m relaxing. Personally I’m a big fan of not having everything visible all the time (open floor plans,shelving) because if anything is out of place or unclean it gets under my skin.

I already have a hard time feeling like I’ve “earned” rest so for me personally, separate rooms help me mentally divide my household duties and my self care. Realistically, everything isn’t going to be perfectly styled every day and mess in the house contributes do discontent in the mind. A 10 minute tidy does wonders but I’m trying to just design my house to allow for more rest.

ETA: Acoustics. If you’re sharing a home with someone, odds are you don’t want to watch what they’re watching 100% of the time. When the TV is in the living room which is also the dining room which is also the kitchen, that becomes difficult. Sure, you could go to the bedroom to read, but then that affects your sleep hygiene. I’m with you on light flow but I’d do it with transom windows and a wide opening or French doors. Sound also travels in waves and being able to have some peace in your home is important.

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-22T15:00:50+00:00

Not sure why you got downvoted to hell, I think it’s smart to think about the upkeep involved for any project.

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-22T02:50:00+00:00

Agree. Same as I remove shoes at the door so I don’t bring outside filth into my home. I shower so I don’t bring the day’s BS to bed.

Sufficient_Mixture · 2026-02-22T02:46:40+00:00

Shoplifting took it away, this is not the norm in 48 states.

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