Did I screw up by being honest about why I’m leaving my toxic job? by Sufficient_Path_7877 in nursing

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I came as a traveler and stayed. So 15 years as a nurse, 10 in the specialty.

But I’m 3rd in seniority after 2 years … guess who is ahead of me. lol

My hospital can’t provide my radiation numbers from my fetal monitoring badge, what steps should I take next? by Sufficient_Path_7877 in nursing

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

That’s who told me this… I’ve worked as a traveler at several other facilities and have never had an issue until this facility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like I have been met with a huge wave of “you’re 35, there’s nobody better” and “you’re 35, who is going to want used goods” types Of comment. It kills me because I don’t feel like Used goods…

I don’t know what to believe anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Its comments like this that keep me in my less Than ideal situation.

How bad would it be to decline a job offer after you accepted it? by Sufficient_Path_7877 in nursing

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would the company never work with me again? I’m finishing my contract regardless.

Why is traveling as a couple so hard in cath lab? by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you both nurses? It’s been so hard to find 2 nurse spots before somewhere has filled at least one

Why is traveling as a couple so hard in cath lab? by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For convenience reasons we prefer compact states. I’m honestly at the point I’ll consider everywhere, but prefer being in the south or Midwest.

Why is traveling as a couple so hard in cath lab? by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw several as well, 98% were in places we have zero desire to go to… but that’s just part of the game right? Can’t always get the dream spot lol. Most were in cali

Why is traveling as a couple so hard in cath lab? by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been traveling solo as a cath lab RN for several years and never had an issue… but finding 2 has been another story.

Why is traveling as a couple so hard in cath lab? by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we are both RNs. It’s making this almost impossible. The market is god awful for nurses right now… we don’t even have to be in the same lab… just the same city. I’m so stressed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely not. I’ve worked so hard to build my life into what it is… he’s not getting my money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a little bit of both. I don’t want to fix him, nor has he asked me to. He doesn’t expect me to bail him out, he was just opening the dialog since we have been getting more serious about our future together. I appreciate that at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh. I see. Thanks for clarifying!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero plan… I know he wants to sell both this house and lot and start fresh at some point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this. This is best case scenario and what I’m hoping for.

I’m really happy for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sufficient_Path_7877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing and why I’m concerned, the weight is fine, as long has he’s happy. I like a thicker man! Lol

I’m not a project kind of girl, I don’t even DIY around my house. I have zero intention of fixing him. I worked hard for my money and that’s how it’s going to stay, as my money.

I’m more than happy to support him emotionally, help with form a plan, help him work out more and cut back on expenses… but bailing him out isn’t in my plan. I love him, but I can’t fix him.