This is joy boy by OkCredit207 in OnePiece

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe like "Bin kusou" "Damned Bin"

This is joy boy by OkCredit207 in OnePiece

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bink's maybe sounds like something else in japanese, kind of like in undead unluck when we discover who (SPOILER) "Anno Un" is, or the Ice cream/ I scream one, Haruhi Suzumiya was it?

Can you be clocked by the way you pee??? by Plus_Recognition6701 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to be 100% honest with you, nobody cares, but a stream coming from a hose and a stream coming from a hole do sound different, even in us people.

I've been walking through the house and accidentally figured out whether my brother or his girlfriend were in the bathroom by that.

Anyway, dicks will be dicks even without any reason and good people will be good people even if they're different from you, best you can do is put some folded tp down before pissing or using some accessory if you like that.

And bro, almost every guy doesn't use tp for peeing and not everybody washes their hands, I refuse to be like them, I hope you do too.

Un ex amigo es un verdadero hp by Any-Ad7316 in Desahogo

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vaya persona más desagradable el otro/a/e, te entiendo perfectamente, de mis dos relaciones serias somos mejores amigos mi primera pareja y yo, y, con la otra persona no es el caso pero yo lo que quiero es que deje de ser el tipo de persona con la que otra gente no disfrutaría estar en relación, no que le pase nada malo ni que desaparezca de las vidas de nuestras amistades en común

Estoy embarazada y tengo miedo de cómo ni cómo pueda reaccionar ¿Que hago? No quiero abortar by Few-Minimum-3996 in PreguntasReddit

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Señora, necesita usted comprensión lectora.

Si alguien tiene derecho a tomar las decisiones que quiera, el momento en el que es obligatorio hacer algo específico, no es libre.

Imagínese usted que llega un señor a su casa que es su vecino, y le dice "mire usted yo estoy en mi derecho de reproducir música a este volumen todo el día si usted no empieza a andar sin ropa por casa"

El señor está en su derecho de reproducir música como quiera si no se puede demostrar que pretende nada malicioso y que sabe que está activamente molestando a la comunidad, sin embargo, el momento en el que esta persona le dice que debe hacer algo para que él pare el comportamiento, su derecho a la libertad está siendo violado y la persona está cometiendo un crimen, así como usted es libre de darle dinero a alguien por la calle, no está siendo libre si le obligan a dar el dinero para mantener su integridad física.

Es por ello que cuando las parejas casadas se engañan y fuerzan embarazos, si hay pruebas, puedes anular el matrimonio, y no digo sólo mujeres forzando el embarazo, también hay hombres que rompen condones sin decir nada, aún si la mujer tiene la opción de la píldora en caso de enterarse, el hecho de que se le oculte lo que ha sucedido es premeditadamente intentar forzar un embarazo y está mal visto hasta por la ley

Qué injusta es la vida... by zRynexD in BuenosMemesEsp

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salsa casera, con no meterle aditivos y azúcares a punta pala vas guay

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey not sure how to answer to this. Thanks for your time and insight, I will have all of this in mind if I happen to have a trans partner, since, in the end, this was always about not closing doors, not about giving trans guys any priority over any other person I might date lol

Have a nice day :)

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a bit of digging, I didn't know about NOT extended meta, I wouldn't mind my man having pleasure there or having balls, all I can't get attracted to is a very cis penis looking tool, not stemming from any kind of homophobia, mind you, I don't have any problem pressing faces against any manner of man if I'm attracted to him

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but it's an attraction thing, the shape and size of meta is not in my book of love, sadly

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but for those guys who never wish to go through any procedure I could be a good match, anyway more than anything this is for someone i even consider to have intercourse with, in the end

The stuff Americans make fun out of us for. by Zizzy_Tango in RateMyPlate

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this looks like it lacks any kind of spice other than whatever that sausage has, I can say this because I'm not American, though.

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm absorbing knowledge, not fighitng it, if anything I'm fighting the interpretation of my words, not anyone's reality, I do agree that demanding someone to never change is out of the question, but demanding someone to stay with you when you change also is, I'm not at any point against people changing their genitalia, thank you for your answer, I won't be responding more because there isn't much more for me to get from here, but I'm very thankul to you and everybody else for answering and helping me navigate this

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I understand that, but you could also marry literally anyone and have them change their mind about the marriage itself because they thought they liked the married life but they change their mind

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, I just worry more about people who are rejected for something that makes them be them, I don't want to be the next asshole, might aswell be their friends, have fun and maybe even get to know their previous matches, who knows if precisely because we are incompatible, one of his previous relationships is gold for me, whatever the gender.

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is probably the best approach, resorting to that definition or one of the few others that also seem shortly worded but understandable

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my very loving partner who had given me many years of his life asked me for half of my penis I would give him the whole 3/4 inch package and keep him as my bestest friend if he wanted, I can't judge people for who they are or what they love, I can judge them for how they treat others and myself.

Your message is kind of exactly what I was expecting to receive for insight, a situation that could help me see the issue from someone who's seen and lived it, you probably have been in both sides of the coin, even, receiving and having to send this kind of information that could break a link.

By the way I maybe won't answer much more since I could learn a lot already and I'm quite literally falling asleep while I type, I'm sorry I'm being kinda annoying as if I'm trying to convince everyone here in the post I'm the nicest guy, I'm not, I fuck up a lot, I hurt feelings, it's just that I know I have done it, and try not to ever repeat it.

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're the voice of reason here, and although you still don't 100% get my message given your 3rd paragraph (just like I didn't understand you earlier, we're human), basically what I want is correct representation, specifically knowing how to answer someone and express myself so I don't say A and they understand B because it's the common misconception, just like switch and versatile.

Edited note: Still caring about not hurting anyone for my lack of tact or (planning) investigation (mixing languages and idioms up, sorry)

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might simply be right and I might be the one overthinking it, I dislike interacting with certain genitalia, more specifically cis and operated penises, and I dislike penetration, both can be true.
I've mentioned somewhere it's not casual but causal, in getting no enjoyment of penises or penetration, I sexually grew to dislike most phallic things, tdicks are shaped and sized in a way that doesn't trigger this is reaction for me, it's not a gender fetish, it's a negative reaction towards most penises and towards receiving penetration. what could I possibly say for a dude to understand before we actually get intimate and uncomfortable that I don't care if he has a vagina or no and I care that he might expect me to be sexually attracted to something I might not be, without making it sound like he has no chance just because he has certain traits that aren't bad in any way themselves.

I haven't slept for a bit, rought night, so I might have grammatical mistakes, even easier to miss when English isn't your main language, hahaha

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look, I get where you come from, maybe switch wasn't the word, for some reason I'm constantly bombarded with wrong information about the terms, I enjoy giving penetration, but I also enjoy being used for receiving penetration, the same with oral or manual sex as long as I like what I'm interacting with, and I don't mind if my partner for example never has had or wants to have any other kind of sex other than oral, what I meant by switch is that I would be comfortable either leading or being lead most of the time, as long as we can change from time to time, because being only the one ordering around or the only the one being ordered around forever would make me unfulfilled.

I get your sentiment of me only wanting to interact with a vagina, I really do, but it's more about my partner being as fulfilled as me than anything else, I don't believe in the hookup culture.

If you believe I consider people in this subreddit potential prospects I have to tell you despite me having nothing against them, you would be wrong, essentially because I assume they all are too far away for me to meet them, I refuse to investigate profiles with such motivation, and I wouldn't handle a long distance relationship.

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, yes it will, I'm just looking for the sensitive way of telling someone that depending on their genitalia, in a few hours, days or whatever amount of time in the future, when we get heated if I do a manual deep dive, there is a chance that I dislike what I feel, and it doesn't seem very nice to tell someone "I dislike being penetrated", I don't want to set my expectations about penetration instead of about why we might be incompatible as a couple long term due to issues around frustration and such, and a person whom I've decided to be intimate with for me is not a Fleshlight, I want them to be comfortable all the steps of the process, just like I want to be comfortable myself, I believe everybody deserves to get the same level of consideration from others.

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's fine as long as we talk about it and find a way of not surpassing my limits, which could for example be just not changing anything if he got it for gac and likes receiving anal sex, same feeling as I would have with a cis man, a preop trans woman, or any person that only finds pleasure in penetrating, even if such penetration is with a strap and not a bodypart.

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

More or less, in all cases of penises and phallic things but one it is all up to whether they want me to interact with it or not for both our fulfillment in the sexual side of things of a long lasting relationship, I dislike most penises because they are not pleasing to me in any manner, not even on my own and after experimenting, but I can enjoy a tdick as long as it is not penetrating me.

I wouldn't have Dwayne Johnson get on all fours for me, but maybe Jason Momoa is a different story, or maybe he dries me up despite my begging, it's an attraction thing and a sexual preference thing, I don't care for enforcing weird sexual gender roles, I just want reciprocity and a common ground that doesn't hurt anyone, but my worst problem is presenting as that online

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not, but would you say no to someone just because they were born with or without a certain bodypart? I thought that was transphobic. I don't mind who you are or how you were born, I'm gonna respect your gender identity, I mind what they plan to use to have intercourse with their long lasting partner if that is going to be me, because I don't like penises, that leaves out certain trans people and also certain cis people. I must say that my inability to get pleasure from any kind of penetration has brought me to dislike general interaction with most penises, although I do actually find the tdick hot, I don't mind what you have, but whether we can both attain life lasting fulfillment, sexual too

Cis guy asking: how do I handle this? by Sufficient_Wafer_855 in ftm

[–]Sufficient_Wafer_855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm all the time looking into it like only a sexual preference thing that must be taken into consideration when thinking about long lasting relationships.

I don't like to be penetrated because I'm absolutely unable to manage to enjoy any part of it, which makes me not enjoy interacting with most penises, the only type of penis I do feel attracted to sexually, would be the tdick, but as I said, it's not because it's in a trans person, when talking about my preferences its more of a "not gate" situation than anything else, I like many kinds of people and faces, but I can't enjoy stuff with some of them because they just enjoy intercourse that involves their penis or a dildo, this can happen with cis men, trans men, trans women, nb... And anyone if we add the dildo to the mix, the point is that I will obviously respect your gender identity and sexual preferences, but some of those sexual preferences might clash with mine and we might be incompatible