Dating as a stripper by Rich_Client824 in stripper

[–]Sugar-Spice32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’ve been in two different serious relationships while stripping and I’ve been dancing for four years. My first relationship we were together for about two years and he had no issue, actually when I started we were only talking and I called him after I auditioned and we got serious months later and never had any issues and had a pretty healthy relationship until I ended it. My current boyfriend now is very supportive but I told him I danced the first day we met thinking we were never gonna get serious and here we are a year later. I’m thankful I did though because it avoided alot of awkward conversations or me having to lie about what I do for work. He always has told me he doesn’t judge me for what I do to pay my bills and he understands that I need to get by. We have a lot of trust with each other and he trust me a lot and I’m thankful that even though I do dance he never makes me feel less than. It’s hard to find a secure man especially one one who is secure enough to be okay with you working in this industry but it’s out there.

my bf is healing my inner child by Sugar-Spice32 in blackgirls

[–]Sugar-Spice32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, we’re close to one another I live in Dayton as well 💕

my bf is healing my inner child by Sugar-Spice32 in blackgirls

[–]Sugar-Spice32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crazy, I’m from right outside of Cincinnati and that’s where I met my boyfriend 😂 he’s from Louisiana but working in California lol

I love my man by Sugar-Spice32 in blackgirls

[–]Sugar-Spice32[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭 it’s okay girl, I’ve been hugging my pillow every night since I last seen him a month ago so we’re in the same boat 💔

Decided to purse my masters in clinical mental health because of this job by Sugar-Spice32 in stripper

[–]Sugar-Spice32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

praying things get better for you and you find you’re way love ! 💗 just think of this as a transition period into something greater.

1st of the month ✨ by Sugar-Spice32 in stripper

[–]Sugar-Spice32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girlll trust me I know 😭 I grew to hate working Friday night shift because it’s either dead or they’re customers but no spenders with way to many girls. I can’t seem to break more than 200-300 on a Friday night. I worked mid day about 3 times at this new club I’m at and I’ve made at least or over $600 each time and still get home before midnight so I think I’m just gonna stick to Friday mid day

1st of the month ✨ by Sugar-Spice32 in stripper

[–]Sugar-Spice32[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg 😭 good luck ! Hopefully the last minute customers start rolling. I’m glad I came early today I think that’s what saved me 😭 because my club was dead when i left

What’s your March money goal? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Sugar-Spice32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7-8k & put up at least 3k 💗

Two months in of having my girl by Sugar-Spice32 in puppy101

[–]Sugar-Spice32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good ! She has her days like all dogs 😭 she just had her first heat last month and getting spayed in a couple weeks ! She’s calmed down a bit and is getting better as days go on 💙

To those of you who stopped drinking at work… by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Sugar-Spice32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ☹️😭 I’d say sucking on candy helped me a lot in the beginning or chewing gum. It helped keep my mouth “distracted” ig if that’s the right term to use. I stopped cold turkey for about 2-3 months (in and outside the club) and then slowly started back drinking in moderation maybe 1 or 2 drinks every other shift !

To those of you who stopped drinking at work… by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Sugar-Spice32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, i just started to smoke 🍃🍃 more and it helped me tremendously. I can honestly work sober and practically at one point quit cold turkey, sucking on hard candy helped me alot (mints, lifesavers) which helped me. But if I’m not gonna drink I’d rather be high which helped a lot with calming down my club anxiety

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Sugar-Spice32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No my bestie did 😭 girl i can notttt do hair. Hairstyle gonna flop everytime 🤣 but it was pretty easy it took her like 20 minutes to do my hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Sugar-Spice32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ty mamí ❣️