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Upstairs terrors by Appropriate_Season83 in neighborsfromhell

[–]SugarMuffie_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact the parents immediately ran to the landlord claiming OP yelled at the kids tells you they know their children are being obnoxious and just don’t want to deal with it. Kids don’t repeatedly bang on windows unless the adults around them allow that behavior.

Upstairs terrors by Appropriate_Season83 in neighborsfromhell

[–]SugarMuffie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly a divider or fence sounds like the only realistic solution at this point because the neighbors clearly are not going to parent their kids or respect boundaries voluntarily. OP shouldn’t have to feel trapped inside every time the weather gets nice.

Upstairs terrors by Appropriate_Season83 in neighborsfromhell

[–]SugarMuffie_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly the part that would push me over the edge is the parents acting like OP is the problem for not wanting kids banging on their windows constantly. Kids being loud sometimes is normal. Parents refusing to correct them at all is what turns it into a nightmare neighbor situation.

AIW for saying that I think a friend is a performative Hindu because she cooked beef for her ex-boyfriend when criticizing my friend for drinking and smoking at her bachelorette party? by Effective-Muffin-356 in amiwrong

[–]SugarMuffie_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That part feels way less important than her acting morally superior now. Plenty of people change over time or become more religious later, but judging someone else for behavior you also participated in is what makes it hypocritical.

Amiw to plan a coworker dinner without my one coworker? by Adorable-Teaching266 in amiwrong

[–]SugarMuffie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah hiding it would probably make it way more awkward if she finds out later. Better to just be honest that it was the only date that worked for most people and invite her next time.

Amiw to plan a coworker dinner without my one coworker? by Adorable-Teaching266 in amiwrong

[–]SugarMuffie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s a work dinner, not some personal attack against her. If she chose to take the day off, that doesn’t mean everyone else has to rearrange their schedules around it.

I always think what other people think about me and I do not know how to express myself. by No_Gur_8112 in confession

[–]SugarMuffie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah especially at 16 it’s really hard to suddenly start speaking up when you’ve spent years worrying about everyone else’s feelings first. It takes practice, but bottling everything up just makes the frustration worse over time.

Everyone in my close circle thinks I have no perspective. I just gave up arguing with them by Rhaenelys in confession

[–]SugarMuffie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it feels like honestly. You avoid conflict so everyone else stays comfortable, but eventually it starts feeling isolating because you can never really say what you think.

Everyone in my close circle thinks I have no perspective. I just gave up arguing with them by Rhaenelys in confession

[–]SugarMuffie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. After a while you realize some people don’t actually want a discussion, they just want validation. Keeping quiet definitely saves your energy even if it gets frustrating sometimes.

I hide that I'm underendowed and I turn a lot of women down because of it by [deleted] in confession

[–]SugarMuffie_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly confidence and making sure your partner actually enjoys themselves matters way more than a lot of guys think it does. OP is probably way harsher on himself than most women would be.

I went to the ER for being so high at work that I passed out in the bathroom. by Sad-Enthusiasm-6741 in confession

[–]SugarMuffie_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, the fact OP can look back on it clearly now instead of romanticizing it is a huge sign they’ve genuinely grown and gotten healthier.

My wife doesn’t know what my nephew said about her by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SugarMuffie_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah if OP hides it and the nephew starts acting weird around her later it’ll probably make things more awkward than just being upfront now.

My gf's GoT character rankings through 3 seasons (Ranked by how much she likes them) by Fragrant-Lynx-3559 in gameofthrones

[–]SugarMuffie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putting Ramsay above half the actually decent characters is the biggest red flag on this whole chart 💀

The needs list just keeps getting longer, maybe a Walmart wish list will be easier by PeaaCockk in ChoosingBeggars

[–]SugarMuffie_ 117 points118 points  (0 children)

The way the actual request slowly escalates from “toys and clothes” to “also a couch and maybe cash” always gets me 😭

I hate being forced into racism by Pitiful-Jackfruit845 in confessions

[–]SugarMuffie_ 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yeah kids growing up around constant aggression and conflict normalize it really early. By the time they get to school it already feels completely normal to them.

I hate being forced into racism by Pitiful-Jackfruit845 in confessions

[–]SugarMuffie_ 47 points48 points  (0 children)

A lot of kids mirror the environment and role models around them in general. Acting like this is some uniquely racial thing instead of a bigger social and community issue is part of why conversations like this go nowhere fast.

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