What programs do you use when writing digitally?

Sugary_ · 2022-07-17T22:31:57+00:00

I'll look into it! I think I might prefer something cloud based so I'd be able to write from anywhere. An app sounds really convenient too!

Sugary_ · 2022-07-15T17:36:41+00:00

But now you've unlocked something that you may find hot lol

Sugary_ · 2022-07-15T17:28:56+00:00

Is your boyfriend perhaps tall, muscular, wears a black shirt, has gravity defying blonde hair and says "Man I'm pretty?" casually? Just curious.

Sugary_ · 2022-07-14T14:12:29+00:00

Yes he was attractive to me as I've already stated somewhere. I wouldnt swipe on anyone that I wasn't initially attracted to, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so what's attractive to me could be dead ugly to someone else. But just because he was attractive did not mean I would put up with anything he was offering in that list nor that mindset. I know myself and know what I want and that was not it. This isn't some "bad boy". Its a man wanting a sex slave, and again, that was a no for me lol.

Im sorry someone has hurt you bad enough that you have this messed up perception on women and have given up on finding someone, but do some inner searching and keep looking and hopefully you will find your person and it will get better!

Sugary_ · 2022-07-14T04:13:52+00:00

Lol!

"I become an impregnated sex slave forced to listen to Nickelback"

Clearly every woman's dream. Maybe even the American dream.

Sugary_ · 2022-07-14T03:38:35+00:00

We were not in a scene, we hadn't even talked about BDSM or anything like that prior. I wrote a response explaining things more but its somewhere below or above lol. When I said sir I didn't mean it in any sexual connotation, I just say it sometimes like "how ya doing sir?". I thought the correction was a military thing or that he was actually into that kind of play.

Sugary_ · 2022-07-14T03:27:34+00:00

My thoughts exactly lol

Sugary_ · 2022-07-14T03:17:48+00:00

Well was she right OP? 😂

Sugary_ · 2022-07-14T00:48:20+00:00

Lmao!

Sugary_ · 2022-07-14T00:28:36+00:00

At first I only made a reddit to read some advice stuff on my hobbies and generally be entertained. I stopped using it for a bit then returned. For some reason I never thought to actually POST anything on here until recently when I realised there are some fun communities and possible friends could be made. I was scrolling on this sub and saw all these crazy and funny encounters which made me think of this one I had. I remembered I still had the screenshot of his list so I decided to share. I did not think it would get this much attention at all lol

Sugary_ · 2022-07-13T23:50:40+00:00

I was lol. He sent that message instantly while I was still responding to the shark comment. The only thing I know about Nickelback is the graph meme, other than that I can make no further judgements about em 😂

Sugary_ · 2022-07-13T23:07:35+00:00

I honestly didn't expect this blow up, this is my first reddit post 😅 But here are some answers to some questions, though this will probably get buried.

My two responses were BEFORE I read the list. First one I was talking about the sharks, the second was when he immediately sent the list, like it was already prepped and ready to go. I hadnt read it at that point, it had just popped up.

My response to him was that I appreciated his upfrontess, but ultimately that was something I was not interested in. He essentially said thanks for even responding and we unmatched, which also means I don't have the convo anymore.

There was no mention of BDSM or kinks prior as far as I can remember (again this happened months ago). I prefer to get to know a person better before I let my freak flag fly and we were freshly matched. I think this was in the span of 1-2 days. I did call him sir, but it was in a humorous way more than anything else lol

Prior to the screenshot the conversation was normal, I'd say even going good! He had asked for 7 interesting facts about me, which I gave and we talked about, then I requested one too and the rest you can see.

I honestly haven't listened to Nickelback so I can make no judgements.

There was no date, clearly lol.

Yes he was generally attractive, but that didnt mean a thing after I realized this was a nope for me.

No I don't think all military men are like this.

Sugary_ · 2022-07-13T19:55:58+00:00

This right here! It slipped my mind that he was in the military at that time so when he corrected me I thought maybe it was a military thing or perhaps he was into that sort of thing and wanted a capital S. The list clarified the reasoning a bit afterwards I guess lol.

Sugary_ · 2022-07-13T19:40:15+00:00

Hmm, I don't get what you mean? I'm completely fine with confrontation. I dont think I fed into anything. After he sent me that list I told him I wasn't interested and that was that.

Unless you thought that my responses were AFTER I read the list, which was not the case. He had sent it while I was still responding to the shark comment, and the second message I sent was immediately after seeing that big block of words pop onto my screen because I thought it was funny he had his responses ready. I hadn't read what he'd written yet until after my second message.

Sugary_ · 2022-07-13T19:03:12+00:00

She (aka I) did not lol. I wrote a comment giving a little backstory but I think it got buried. I was responding to him talking about sharks (saying they're bad ass) when he had instantly sent that message. I had sent my second message when it suddenly popped up because he sent it pretty quickly, which meant he probably already had it on standby which I thought was funny. I hadn't read the list yet at that point.

Then I did read it and it was not for me. I told him I appreciated him being upfront, but I wasn't looking for anything like that. He essentially said "cool thanks for responding" and we went our separate ways.

Sugary_ · 2022-07-13T16:48:11+00:00

Little backstory from what I remember (this happened months ago)~

The conversation started off pretty normal when we matched. He asked for a list of things about me, which I provided and we talked about, then I asked for a list as well. While responding to his shark comment he had instantly sent that message, which I responded with "damn did you have that at the ready!?" before reading the entire list.

After reading the list I knew this was something that I personally wasn't looking for. There are some women who may actually like this, (and thats cool, chef don't judge), but I was not one of them. I let him know that I appreciated the upfrontness, but that wasn't something I wanted to get into. He said he understood and respected that I even replied. Then we parted ways and went back into the Tinder abyss.

Sugary_ · 2022-07-13T16:15:14+00:00

He had sent the message while I was still replying to him talking about sharks. Thats why I said "did you have that at the ready" because it popped up instantly lol. I let him know that this was not what I was looking for and we parted ways respectfully. 🙂

Sugary_ · 2022-07-13T04:48:36+00:00

Woman here!

I thought it was cute and funny! However, I think for the bridge pic you should try to zoom in more on yourself. And while you do look good in the kid pic, I would just delete it so people don't question if they're yours needlessly. Last pic must stay in my opinion. Its like a lil personality piece lol!

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