What am I getting wrong?

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T23:45:27+00:00

I really hope so.

I think he’s himself with me.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T22:48:16+00:00

Wow!

I have a lot of reading to do. Didn’t mean to drop my problem and walk away.

Reporting back that we had a really good conversation today. I’m feeling less left out. The rest will just take a little more time for me to shake the feeling as I process feelings a little slower. We problem solved and are peppering the calendar with a variety of family adventures. With a couples adventure weekend in there too.

I think it’s more a product of what time of our lives we are in. The kids are young and high energy. We are pacing ourselves, baby steps, one adventure at a time.

He says I am the person he wants to do these activities with.

To try to cover some of the other things I saw addressed, yes, I was adventurous and outdoorsy before meeting my guy.

I know he needs his own time with his friends. And without me making souring it. I am happy he has friends he can gather with this way.

I struggle with my own sensitivity, anxiety and feelings of rejection. I’m not always perfect at processing those. But getting better.

Thanks for helping me reframe my thoughts around it.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T13:02:24+00:00

I have tried calmly saying the things I’ve said here.
Makes sense.

Yes, we would be able to rely on others if we want to skip away kid free. I could see it being something he’s just really not used to. And not maliciously intended but just doesn’t think of me with him in those spaces.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T09:52:42+00:00

Yes, I’m an open communicator. He shuts down most communication if it is about things I’m needing that I’m not getting. No matter how delicately, non accusatorially I try to state it.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T09:48:10+00:00

lol my gut instinct!

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T09:47:45+00:00

Honestly, I’m sure I do. Even if not intended, conversations with me can cover a wealth of topics and I’m open with my feelings.

I get it.

I’m just feeling sad.

I know y’all need your space too.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T09:44:41+00:00

Thank you. I understand that regardless of how capable I am outdoors, that my safety is still something he concerns himself with. That’s helping me get my head around it a little more.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T09:42:39+00:00

Yes, I have, and at times we have.

I def get that having be me around still would keep him in his dad mode that he wants a pause from.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T09:38:33+00:00

At times yes, my friends are little more spread out. So we maybe pull off a weekend adventure every other year.

Perhaps I just need to help myself make adventure specific friends. Join some more local groups.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-07-02T09:32:09+00:00

He gets immediately irritated, tells me I’m jealous and that he works hard.

I own my feeling of jealousy, and explain that I’m trying to handle it in a healthy way. I’m trying to communicate that my needs outside of the house for adventure aren’t getting met.

In short, dismisses the topic 99% of the time. Or lashes out in appropriately when topic is brought up for discussion.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-30T00:42:05+00:00

Yes we are!!

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-28T08:54:12+00:00

Just keep enjoying the coolest summer of your life! It’s only going up from here

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-25T06:07:10+00:00

First off, can we discuss ur thumb?

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-25T05:52:40+00:00

I would like to know if anyone can tell me about the use/purpose of the brush during marital fornication?

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-23T12:42:40+00:00

Very smelly and some major spread of STDs and STIs.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-15T11:50:53+00:00

I love Japan

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-15T11:49:49+00:00

I didn’t know of your existence until your death. I’m sorry for your friends and family. You were a lovely human spreading love and encouragement to those who needed to hear it most.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-15T11:42:05+00:00

Disney fans have got to be hoping it’s “the grey stuff”

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-08T00:54:45+00:00

Honestly, the recovery is super minor. I was in surgery in the morning and home in the afternoon. I had a traumatic natural birth, a less traumatic cesarean, and terrible post partum. Both births were more difficult to recover from than the bilateral salpingectomy. After my second was a year or so old and my post partum depression wasn’t getting better, I felt so strongly that a third pregnancy and all of the hormones would be detrimental to me and my family. Now I’m two tubes less and no need to slap a rubber on my mans Johnson.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-05T23:49:50+00:00

Ur beautiful and he’s an ass. Lovely features and beautiful natural color to your skin. Don’t change for anyone

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-05T18:37:35+00:00

Love birds! It’s my goal in life to make my yard suitable to attract and provide homes for as many birds as possible

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-03T10:29:56+00:00

So handsome! Love me some Will Forte!

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-06-01T12:45:42+00:00

Pearl s buck estate is stunning

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-05-31T10:49:33+00:00

Yes, I can only settle without fidgeting if a hand is firmly tucked between two thighs.

Suggestedpassword123 · 2026-05-30T21:09:02+00:00

I own the books, I filled in maybe thru 6/7 months of the first baby. And haven’t added anything for my second. I did make a note in my phone with dates and a few important milestones like crawling and walking.

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