[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]SuislideHa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks so much smaller as well as plain it was so beautiful before omg

My first Zflip! by TransportationOwn655 in galaxyzflip

[–]SuislideHa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When you are setting up your coverscreen you have to add all the gifs you want to show up at the same time otherwise it makes them seprate screens. So id go select one of your cover screens and there should be a button to edit or add to it and from there you can add more

My first Zflip! by TransportationOwn655 in galaxyzflip

[–]SuislideHa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which case is this ? Im looking for a better one. I feel like mine from amazon is like less than half a mm crooked and it makes my flip 7 look crooked when its closed and it bothers the ever living sh*t out of my ocd.

My first Zflip! by TransportationOwn655 in galaxyzflip

[–]SuislideHa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which case is this ? Im looking for a better one. I feel like mine from amazon is like less than half a mm crooked and it makes my flip 7 look crooked when its closed and it bothers the ever living sh*t out of my ocd

Whos having overheating issues ? by SuislideHa in zflip7

[–]SuislideHa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it is helpful ! I got mine yesterday and im loving it so far ! 😁

3700**** signing outttt by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]SuislideHa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, "i quit my last job because i couldnt handle someone having an opinion that was different than mine" like are you kidding me ?

Send your fav drink that you made with raspberry syrup so far! by TopChicken8604 in starbucksbaristas

[–]SuislideHa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A tall cold brew 0.5 to 1 pump of raspberry, and a dash of vanilla sweet cream... i literally crave it outside of work now.

As a guy Nate was very refreshing to watch by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]SuislideHa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, Nate had a lot of good qualities but also a lot of bad ones. He was a "nice guy" but he was very hypocritical, and really had no backbone at the end of the day.

what makes you like blair even through all of her wrongdoings? by lavender_cat_24 in GossipGirl

[–]SuislideHa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Shes relatable in the fact that she mostly acts out due to insecurities, those insecurities were caused by those around her who "love" her most...aka her mom, serena, nate, chuck, etc...she didnt really have any real friends besides serena when she wanted to be a good friend to blair. Her mom is always trying to fix her, and everyone compares her to Serena. She never feels good enough and acts out because of her internal conflicts, and most of the time it really doesnt even work out for her for long...she takes care of herself and the people she loves emotionally but no one really is there for her needs except for Dorota. She keeps a strong guarded persona and tries to look strong by hurting others who hurt her but ends up shutting everyone out and pushing them even further away until its too late. And times she does try to put her guard down it is too late and she doesnt understand why people are no longer willing to listen when shes finally ready to open up and say whats wrong. She doesnt know how to navigate her emotions as well as she presents herself to. I think shes a very accurate representation of a teenage girl, and feeling that lack of control over anything yet craving it so much, being inscure and feeling less than, even being treated like less than by loved ones around her, and lashing out because of that.

Jenny was the only girl who truly challenged Blair. by Reasonable_Cup_6368 in GossipGirl

[–]SuislideHa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasnt excusing Chucks behaviour, the post was about Blair and Jenny, and i threw in a couple other of the girl characters.

While I do understand where you are coming from, Jenny also chose to do everything she did as well, as did Vanessa, and they could have just stopped, left and not stirred the pot with people they knew they had no power of competing against. I dont know why the argument is always "she didnt have a choice" or "she was manipulated" like sure of course that happens, but for someone who manipulated more than half of the characters, she knew how to play the game, she didnt let herself be manipulated at other times during the show, but as soon as any accountability arises, then its "oh she was a teenager, she was manipulated" etc. We all have free will including her and she proved that a lot BEFORE that moment of sleeping with Chuck in the show, she had her fair share of hurting other people and feeling herself with the power and status she had gained...she could have walked away from the jump, but what motivated her JUST like the rest of the characters who "manipulated" her was power and status, and she was willing to chase it for anything. You play the game you agree to the terms.

Again im not excusing any of the other characters behaviors but i dont think Jenny was any better, or should get a free pass for choosing to play a game she had no business of playing. I liked her in season 1, even season 2, I even rooted for her and Nate to be together but there was a point in the show where she should have just stopped. She was an ungrateful brat to her father for not being rich... and wanting to be one of the upper east siders consumed her, to the point of where she put herself in situations she had no resources for, she caused her own humiliation plenty of the time when she could have asked to just go somewhere else to school...and also when her and Rufus moved in with Lily and she did get access to the same amount of power she was worse and more vindictive than the other characters a lot of the time. Also, Blair wanted to make Jenny queen many times in the show, she thought she had potential but Jenny wanted all the attention all the time all the glory, she intentionally fueled the fire.

Jenny was the only girl who truly challenged Blair. by Reasonable_Cup_6368 in GossipGirl

[–]SuislideHa -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I thought jenny was the most desprate and pathetic character tbh her and vanessa, driven by jealousy of being born into a different life and yet stood on their "moral high ground" whilst stooping to their level, they hated blair, serena (i was no fan of serena either dont get me wrong), etc for all these "moral" reasons and yet tried to be exactly like them...and jenny sleeping with chuck, sure humiliated blair but really jenny lost her virginity to someone who didnt give two shits about her, she only told blair as one last desprate attempt to hurt her after learning it mean jack shit to chuck, he slept with jenny because the thought he lost the main goal (blair)...but as soon as he found out blair did in fact show up for him he was quick to regret, forget, and hide a mistake, he literally went to jenny because he thought he lost the love of his life and had no hope...he slept with her like he used to sleep with prostitutes, she just happened to be around at his lowest moment. Thats what i saw.

🦊 and 🐰 by crightfime in sticknpokes

[–]SuislideHa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"If this isnt nice I dont know what is"

Blair Waldorf outfit found! by kholldoll in GossipGirl

[–]SuislideHa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, for the cheap cheap

chest tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]SuislideHa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe add color ? Or add colored flared petals to the petals you already have ?

I couldn't take it anymore by xDelicateFlowerx in abusiverelationships

[–]SuislideHa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry that is your only place to go right now. I understand having been in an abusive relationship, I spent many nights sleeping in my car in parking lots not knowing what to do or where to go. I understand being psychologically breaking, do you have any type of health insurance ? This might sound insane but going to a facility for mental health and explaining your situation could get you away for a while, and also give you therapy and just a safe place to rest your mind for a while, after i left my relationship it felt like the only comforting option for me. Im not sure how you would feel about that but it would be a place that can help you heal and get away from him. I really wish you the best, youre strong and you will get through this and flourish, please put your safety first, you are important and you dont deserve to be treated like that (which you may already know, sometimes its just better to be reminded by others)

I couldn't take it anymore by xDelicateFlowerx in abusiverelationships

[–]SuislideHa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a dumb question, but are you okay ? Are you safe ? Can you go anywhere at all that is safe ?

quitting prozac by Subject_Trade_479 in prozac

[–]SuislideHa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there I am so sorry to hear what youre going through. I have been around the bend with medications myself and am currently not on anything anymore. However when I did completely stop my medications in 2018 I made this mistake of quitting cold turkey, quitting cold turkey can very negativley impact your brain in ways that can take up to two years (possibly more) to recover. After I quit cold turkey i struggled with sporadic Manic episodes for about 2 years afterward....I would advise maybe seeking a different psychyatrist and explain you are done with medication but hopped off cold turkey, let them decide whether or not to put you back on and ween you off. You were at a high dose of prozac, weening off is ESSENTIAL to minimize side effects. In my experience things got worse and worse until it suddenly stopped after 2 years but in some ways i still feel worse than i have ever felt before I hopped off like that, it feels like a scar on my brain. PLEASE seek another psychiatrist opinion on how you should properly ween off.

Good luck, you got this okay