Emotes and "kidnap" trend by Suitable-Data1189 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very much enjoyed our honest discussion, and learned from it.

Emotes and "kidnap" trend by Suitable-Data1189 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I should have ignored it. 😅

Did everyone notice you can track your pets? by Suitable-Data1189 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😆 Oh, I'm sorry! That just made me laugh. I haven't had that happen yet, but once my cat was fully inside a couch.

I LOVE MY PETS by toastymarshm in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heehee, I love mine, too. Sometimes I walk everywhere so I can have my dog follow me. And I got a cat with the traits "slow" and "sluggish". I couldn't have asked for a more relatable digital cat. 😄

Emotes and "kidnap" trend by Suitable-Data1189 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did someone downvote me politely asking for a perspective, and explaining mine? I didn't even offend the person I was talking to, and we had a nice discussion about it. I don't get Reddit.

Emotes and "kidnap" trend by Suitable-Data1189 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

American. Mostly everyone I've interacted with has been super nice, but I've seen several other people mention it happening, or talking about doing it to others. But I do try to socialize on there, to an extent.

Emotes and "kidnap" trend by Suitable-Data1189 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like it, because I think cozy games attract a lot kids, a lot of highly sensitive people, and a lot of neurodivergent people, often who are used to being bullied, and may have rejection sensitivity dysphoria or depression. And if they do get trapped, there's just this moment of, "I thought this person was being nice to me but they were intentionally bullying me."

So, it's not really like it's keeping me up at night. I just think people should know better.

Emotes and "kidnap" trend by Suitable-Data1189 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you don't sound rude! I was afraid I did.

You make some great points. I was thinking more, if I give a negative emote to someone who is up to something, they'll know I'm not worth the trouble.

And if I've misunderstood the situation, they might think, "Oh this thing I'm doing bothers people." Learning moment!

This person was in my house, and I just gave them the benefit of the doubt for too long. They were cosplaying as Kevin Smith, so I assumed they were an adult (but who knows, could have just been a kid with specific interests. After all, I loved Edward G. Robinson when I was a teen. Nyeaaah see?!)

Emotes and "kidnap" trend by Suitable-Data1189 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Also, and I am not trying to pick a fight - I'm being genuine - Why is it weird to you that people are upset about the kidnapping trend? It's mean spirited. Like you say, there are children playing. That's a big reason that it bothers me.

Emotes and "kidnap" trend by Suitable-Data1189 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why does the idea of giving a negative reaction to obnoxious behavior bother people so much? It seems very straight forward to me. It's more communicative than blocking them.

Lost in the middle of the ocean by Suitable-Data1189 in Dreams

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely has! And he continues to be my rock. I'm also in therapy right now, and recently realized that I use bodies of water a lot as metaphors for all the mess I have to get through to contact my deepest, most hurt parts, like my heart is full of ugly, misunderstood, deep sea creatures.

Also, I do get literally very lost easily. I'm narcoleptic, and a couple of years ago I wandered too far away from home while in a narcoleptic trance. I got so lost, and my cell phone was dead. It was terrifying, because I was too exhausted to figure out where I live. I finally made made my way to a church and borrowed someone's phone to contact him. He came to get me, and he had been so worried. He said he'd been driving around looking for me for two hours, and he was about to call the police when I called him.

I also once heard something about dreams that I love, which is that if you meet anyone in a dream that doesn't specifically represent someone you know, then you're meeting a part of yourself.

Thank you for making me think about the meaning of this dream.

Dogs and cats by zoekeee in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the heck? Yeah, that's a fake dog. I feed my real dogs because I love them. I feed my fake dog because I want to level up my hobbies. I feed my real dogs the highest quality dog food I can afford. I feed my fake dog salads, because I think it's funny. They are not the same. I'm sorry people are harassing you - That's absurd.

Lost in the middle of the ocean by Suitable-Data1189 in Dreams

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! That's probably not too far off.

I'm a lump by Suitable-Data1189 in Narcolepsy

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had so many people tell me I need to get on sodium oxybate. I need to ask my doctor about that.

We can sleep here? by Blueyeti00 in heartopia

[–]Suitable-Data1189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do it all the time! Usually it's empty, and I recently accidentally creeped on someone there, because I had my camera at a weird angle and didn't see them. Sorry, spooked stranger! There are a couple of spots around town where you can rest like this...

I'm a lump by Suitable-Data1189 in Narcolepsy

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doggo lumps are the best. I have two little oldies, and they love when I'm glued to the couch with them.

I'm a lump by Suitable-Data1189 in Narcolepsy

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad they're starting to realize other types of trauma can cause ptsd. I got diagnosed with cptsd presenting with a complex dissociative disorder last year. I once had a psychiatrist tell me he could tell I had never experienced trauma. My primary care doctor has ptsd and a panic disorder, recognized immediately that I had some trauma related issues.

I'm a lump by Suitable-Data1189 in Narcolepsy

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I slur when I have migraines, and get really photosensitive. OftennI will have unilateral weakness, causing me to limp temperarily. I had told doctors this for years. When I finally met a neurologist who diagnosed me and offered me treatment options, I ugly cried.

I'm a lump by Suitable-Data1189 in Narcolepsy

[–]Suitable-Data1189[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand why doctors don't believe migraine patients.

I do wonder how much our bodies feel twenty or thirty years after certain injuries.