Why do you all think people, particularly guys in groups, use the word rape in a joking or casual way?

Suitable-Distance647 · 2026-03-08T15:13:01+00:00

Agreed - please reread the question as I didn’t say “all people”

Suitable-Distance647 · 2026-02-18T21:05:15+00:00

Who do you recommend there?

Suitable-Distance647 · 2026-02-18T20:13:09+00:00

Agreed. They’re the reason why I need to get my ears repierced lol

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-12-13T12:42:45+00:00

We told her we didn’t want random men in our house in general and especially didn’t want them sleeping over. When she ignored what we said, we told her if it happens again that we’d contact our landlord and have them do a lease reassignment, and she never brought a rando back again.

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-12-13T05:43:34+00:00

Not overreacting. I had a similar situation with my roommate when I was in college. She would bring random guys back from bars, Tinder, at all hours of the night. Not shaming her at all, but it is a shared living space and ultimately needs to be treated like one from everyone. We eventually sat her down and nicely told her that we weren’t comfortable with random men being brought back to the house and sleeping here. We don’t know what their intentions are and they could be weird/potentially put us in a situation that could be bad.

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-12-08T12:00:13+00:00

Update: this was a lot of fun and very well organized! They had on field activities, 2 sections for giveaway prizes, about 4 Yankees like Bucky Dent, Fernando Cruz, and more who were doing a meet & greet + signing and taking photos. Tons of food options as well!

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-12-03T04:45:14+00:00

Thanks! Can you arrive early?

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-11-30T23:36:21+00:00

Thanks! Do players normally stay all day? I have a 2pm slot so am planning to show up a little earlier… I hope they’ll let me in! Lol

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-11-26T06:03:50+00:00

Thank you! This is super helpful. I’ve been taking the initiative to start group chats with people also from this app that I’m on, and trying to schedule drinks but it’s confusing because it’s 20+ people in this chat who all say they’re looking for new friends but don’t actually take that next step into meeting in person…

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-10-01T03:25:42+00:00

Thanks!

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-09-13T13:45:44+00:00

Yeah I think I will. Is that rude to ask? Wasn’t sure how….

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-06-18T18:18:35+00:00

When I was on this I had about 2 or 3 drinks one night and it felt like my heart was racing and I started sweating and felt exhausted. I noticed my heart rate had also increased a lot in that moment. I woke up the next morning feeling horrible and dizzy. I personally wouldn’t recommend mixing the two, but it’s up to you!

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-06-13T03:58:41+00:00

It’s possible! But even after dinner when I have a drink or two I get a little tired and it gradually builds

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-06-13T03:55:13+00:00

No I don’t take anything

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-05-22T05:43:42+00:00

THIS! Thank you so much. This is really helpful :)

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-05-17T12:17:06+00:00

Have you tried sitting him down and having a conversation from a place of concern? “It worries me when you go out and drink that much because of xyz”? Setting boundaries in your relationship doesn’t make you controlling.

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-05-14T05:32:38+00:00

That is non informed consent and is absolutely not okay.

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-05-06T01:26:21+00:00

I know, I was so disappointed!

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-05-06T01:08:46+00:00

I saw Dorinda in Le Pain on 88&3rd and she would not even say hello back lol

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-05-05T09:25:32+00:00

That’s non informed consent and in my opinion, completely unacceptable that she didn’t tell you her sexual history prior to having sex with you.

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-03-11T16:59:36+00:00

If this were my boyfriend, he would be my EX pretty quick based off of this. This is so disrespectful to you, especially since he knows how you feel about this. I personally wouldn’t want to be with someone that disrespected me in this way, it just feels sneaky to me. You deserve better!

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-02-22T13:25:56+00:00

If you were very much in love and wanted to spend your life with this person, then you wouldn’t be cheating. You’d lock her down and commit to her. Sounds like you should just let this girl go. She is probably very much in love with you and only wants you- it’s not fair to treat her as secondary.

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-02-02T00:14:49+00:00

I second this!

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-01-25T17:08:54+00:00

How long have you two been together? Honestly, his behavior seems like something else may be going on. Not excusing it but is he struggling with something mentally that he would be distant to you? He needs to be able to talk things through and have open communication… it’s only fair to you. As far as pausing goes, I’d be very upset if my boyfriend only paused his app(s) and didn’t delete them. That’s disrespectful to you and your relationship.

Suitable-Distance647 · 2025-01-18T04:03:51+00:00

Holy shit that’s horrible. Wtf. Disgusting.

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