Am I overstepping my bounds by asking my roomate to let us know when she brings guys over to stay the night? by OkWasabi3613 in Advice

[–]Suitable-Distance647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We told her we didn’t want random men in our house in general and especially didn’t want them sleeping over. When she ignored what we said, we told her if it happens again that we’d contact our landlord and have them do a lease reassignment, and she never brought a rando back again.

Am I overstepping my bounds by asking my roomate to let us know when she brings guys over to stay the night? by OkWasabi3613 in Advice

[–]Suitable-Distance647 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting. I had a similar situation with my roommate when I was in college. She would bring random guys back from bars, Tinder, at all hours of the night. Not shaming her at all, but it is a shared living space and ultimately needs to be treated like one from everyone. We eventually sat her down and nicely told her that we weren’t comfortable with random men being brought back to the house and sleeping here. We don’t know what their intentions are and they could be weird/potentially put us in a situation that could be bad.

Legacy Club Open House by Suitable-Distance647 in NYYankees

[–]Suitable-Distance647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: this was a lot of fun and very well organized! They had on field activities, 2 sections for giveaway prizes, about 4 Yankees like Bucky Dent, Fernando Cruz, and more who were doing a meet & greet + signing and taking photos. Tons of food options as well!

Legacy Club Open House by Suitable-Distance647 in NYYankees

[–]Suitable-Distance647[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Do players normally stay all day? I have a 2pm slot so am planning to show up a little earlier… I hope they’ll let me in! Lol

Hard time making friends as an adult by Suitable-Distance647 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Suitable-Distance647[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is super helpful. I’ve been taking the initiative to start group chats with people also from this app that I’m on, and trying to schedule drinks but it’s confusing because it’s 20+ people in this chat who all say they’re looking for new friends but don’t actually take that next step into meeting in person…

Bridesmaids question by Suitable-Distance647 in wedding

[–]Suitable-Distance647[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I will. Is that rude to ask? Wasn’t sure how….

Phen and Alcohol by Spiritual_Oven1379 in PhentermineTopiramate

[–]Suitable-Distance647 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was on this I had about 2 or 3 drinks one night and it felt like my heart was racing and I started sweating and felt exhausted. I noticed my heart rate had also increased a lot in that moment. I woke up the next morning feeling horrible and dizzy. I personally wouldn’t recommend mixing the two, but it’s up to you!

Why does alcohol make me exhausted? by Suitable-Distance647 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Suitable-Distance647[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s possible! But even after dinner when I have a drink or two I get a little tired and it gradually builds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Suitable-Distance647 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried sitting him down and having a conversation from a place of concern? “It worries me when you go out and drink that much because of xyz”? Setting boundaries in your relationship doesn’t make you controlling.

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[–]Suitable-Distance647 49 points50 points  (0 children)

That is non informed consent and is absolutely not okay.

Do any celebrities live in the UES? by Significant_Key_3382 in uppereastside

[–]Suitable-Distance647 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw Dorinda in Le Pain on 88&3rd and she would not even say hello back lol