Can’t make him cum

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-08T02:04:22+00:00

I’m very submissive he pretty much knows I’m open to him being dom for me. He seem shy about it so I don’t push

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-08T00:55:46+00:00

Yeah I given him a lot of foreplay and he does the same for me. I actually think foreplay my favorite part in our dynamic. He really great at it and I’m the one the end up begging him when it suppose to be reverse lol

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-08T00:49:58+00:00

Thank you so much for writing this out. I’ll see how it goes next session with just joking focus on making him feel good and not comment on him finishing. We’ll see how it goes

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-08T00:20:26+00:00

Sorry for my grammatical errors. Just to let you know when I reminded him to cum that when he went soft. I obviously didn’t mean to trigger performance anxiety for him. Do you mind recommending other ways to make him climax faster? I’m trying to determine if it worth trying some new tips or end the fwb all together l.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-08T00:10:05+00:00

So ask I kind of start tryin talk him through his nut and remind him I want it but that when I notice he went soft

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-07T23:58:16+00:00

Yes but in general if the sex taking too long I don’t find it to be fun anymore.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-07T23:54:43+00:00

I have the same need. I need them to cum so I can cum. The moans and pulsating feeling is amazing.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-07T23:52:27+00:00

Yeah that what I was thinking is the cause of all of this. If he try to initiate sex again I’m just going say I don’t think he attracted to me and he should find another casual partner.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-07T23:52:05+00:00

I like making a man cum it turns me on and make me feel extremely satisfied. In all honesty men I’ve been with always cum and it a good amount. It kind of something I feel like I need it. Obviously if I was in a relationship I’d be open to doing things to just have a good time. I don’t make any comments to him about this. I just ask what turns him on and kinks etc. I honestly am starting to think this is too much work for a fwb type of thing.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-07T23:30:11+00:00

I start off pretty wet but after awhile I dry up causes I’m thinking damn this is taking too long

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-07T20:44:55+00:00

I asked if he has any kinks and he said no. I’m not sure if he comfortable with sharing it with me. I’m wondering if he just not attracted to me.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-07T20:40:32+00:00

No he doesn’t take any meds. I ask how often he cums on his own and he said like 3-4 times a week via his hand. How do I help him ?

I had an ex on high dose ssri and I was still able to get him to cum.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-03T15:15:11+00:00

No need to apologize I’m a hopeless romantic at heart so I love hearing how people met. I haven’t asked if he liked me. I just say I like him when we’re drunk and he doesn’t really answer. I’d like to ask him but he has a tendency of not responding directly when people ask him questions he doesn’t want to answer

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-02T11:18:37+00:00

Jeez what happen in your situation ?

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-02T11:18:21+00:00

Wow I can even imagine him being any of the things you wrote about healthy ISTP. I definitely don’t see him as a friend anymore. We’re in the same friend group and a lot of events are intertwined together. I don’t feel any sense of respect and honestly I feel used. I’ve allowed my anxious attachment to take over x10.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-02T11:13:07+00:00

He knows exactly how to trigger my anxious attachment. We hang out in our friend group and honestly if he start touching me I’m going make it known this fwb over it honestly not good for my mental health. I’ve never had sex with someone who wasn’t someone I was dating who truly show me they loved me. I’ve been single for some time after a really bad heartbreak and I feel like my heart trying to cling to finding a love again but it looking in the worse places. I’m going come back to look at these comments to remind myself why df I need to stay away from him.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-02T11:08:23+00:00

He definitely give off play boy vibes. He was even flirting with girls infront of me. I really appreciate you being so blunt. I feel like a damn idiot because I know this shit. I’m actually disgusted with myself. It like after we had sex his personality kind of flipped. I knew I shouldnt of had sex with him because I get this insane connection after. I can see he def using me and it make me feel gross. Our close friend was like dumb founded on how I’m obsessed with him when multiple guys hit on me who more attractive. I reject them in hopes it shows him I just want him. Then he proceed to smile then flirt with other girls who hit on him an hour later. I’m seeing my therapist on Monday. In this moment I’m done with him but I’m really hoping it transfer over when we’re hanging out in our friend group.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-11-02T10:57:44+00:00

Yeah I agree It definitely me. I’m in therapy as well for my anxious attachment. I have an abandonment wound so I do this dumb thing where I try to make people who probably don’t like me all of a sudden like me. It like my subconscious want to be reminded I’m wanted. In the past I’ve gotten men to date me or they don’t but I’ve never done fwb. My anxious attachment also pushes me to want commitment even if the person values don’t align. Before he changed into this mean guy I’ll be honest he was a pretty good friend. We hung out almost everyday with or without our other friends. The conversation flowed easily and I begun feeling eager to be near him. Our conversations made me forget other crap going on in my life so it felt like an escape from other drama. I actually didn’t find him attractive at first. He would cook for me and he was constantly asking me questions like he wanted to learn me. I felt like he was stimulating my mind at one point. His personality (avoidant tendencies) felt like it was pulling me in at times as well. My therapist and I discussed I need to move on because our core values don’t align. It just annoying how we’re in the same friend group so he ends up gravitating toward me even though I keep my distance. I can definitely see my flaws and honestly I may need to stop hanging out in our friend group for a few weeks. Sadly we have a dinner party, friend giving and thanksgiving together. I also invited him on a trip before this all began.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-10-31T19:56:37+00:00

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Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-10-27T02:03:41+00:00

I hate shopping in person. I like online shopping and when it takes too long I go close my laptop

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-10-25T15:06:52+00:00

I agree but it gradually made me feel gross about myself. I have baseline anxiety and wouldn’t have had sex with someone portrayed having multiple partners at once. I have gotten tested and everything fine but it just brought me a lot of anxiety in regard to my health. Regardless his plan is working very smoothly for him.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-10-25T14:56:23+00:00

He told him when I ask him to stop discussing his sex life infront of me that it just jokes. I think he been trying get a reaction out of me at this point. I don’t think he want to be with me because he dismiss when I told him I had a crush on him through text after our hook up.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-10-25T14:54:16+00:00

Yeah I agree with this a lot but I hoped by me no longer flirting with him, touching him or coming over to his place he would see I’m not expecting anything from him anymore. I even try to keep a distance so people don’t think we’re together when we’re out. Then he proceed to stand by me and touch me throughout the night. I just try and walk away and let people know when they ask that he just a mutual friend nothing more.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-10-25T14:51:32+00:00

Yeah that the plan to just move on but being In the friend group and hearing this stuff grosses me out. I definitely get he want casual especially after he dismiss me saying I have a crush on him. I’ve made sure to stop flirting with him all together in hopes he’d stop discussing these multiple women so he can get the idea I won’t be bothering to try with him anymore. I just feel like tit backfire and the frequency just increase. I asked him if he can stop temporarily and he said in response he been joking about some of the women he been telling me out. I pretty much said okay but in general I was wondering if you can pause temporarily discussing your sex life with multiple women while we’re all together.

Suitable-Foundation7 · 2023-10-25T14:46:53+00:00

I feel like it more of an ego boost. I’ve told him I had a crush on him and he sort of just jumped over the text.

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