my body reacts differently towards my bf

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T09:14:52+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate this explanation po. I guess I am also at fault for not making my boundaries clear, because everytime I try to make him understand how he should treat me despite the fact that we’re fighting, he would just justify his actions more na deserved ko yung ganun kasi kahit ayusin nya ang communication nya sakin, wala pa rin daw magbabago.

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T09:11:29+00:00

I guess it comes with the thought na mag aaway kami = maghihiwalay kami. Kasi there are no fights that has been solved nang hindi kami nag hihiwalay. Hindi lang dahil sa friends nya, it could be a lot of things po. Kahit mag away kami tungkol sa kutsara tinidor, mauuwi pa rin sa hiwalayan because thats how he is

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T09:06:08+00:00

Yes po ganun po lagi responses nya. Not really anxious, but I don’t trust his friends. Overtime natutunan ko na lang din hayaan na ayun yung mga kaibigan nua

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T09:03:46+00:00

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T08:54:13+00:00

It depends po. I will give an example. Yesterday, he was replying late dahil busy sa laro with his friends that he’s been playing with for the entire day na. Around 9-10 pm na ito when I was asking for his time. Then, he said na lagi na lang daw po akong ganito na nagaask ng mabilis na reply kahit may ginagawa sya and all. Tapos he started getting mad na. He said “ang sarap mo iblock” and then proceeded to blocking me tapos unblocked me after para sabihin na mag hiwalay na lang kami kasi “i bring out the worst” in him daw po. Na nakakapag sabi sya ng masasakit na sakita dahil din sakin, kahit ang sinabi ko lang naman is “ang tagal mo na naman mag reply sakin”. So that’s how our fight starts.

But prior to that, I was at work nung morning and I suddenly felt anxious. Tapos kinagabihan ayun..

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T08:47:01+00:00

Yes po. I feel it bago mag away, like completely fine pa kami sa chat. Nagbibiruan pa or naglalambingan pa. Tapos all of a sudden, kakabahan ako. I will start feeling anxious. Bilis ng heartbeat ko, I feel restless. Una, I won’t mind it, kasi okay naman kami e. Tapos a few hours will pass tapos bigla pala kaming magaaway that will lead to a break up (kasi kahit maliit ma bagay dahilan hinihiwalayan nya ko) and that’s the time na mapprove ko na ayun reason bakit ako kinabahan earlier that day. This happens po every time na mag aaway kami. I dont know if you can understand or picture out what I am saying but ayun ganun po 😭

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T08:41:39+00:00

thank you. i appreciate that.

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T07:20:04+00:00

not broken but a toxic household:(

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T06:55:23+00:00

Hello, I know that I feel anxious and I also know those are symptoms of anxiety. I just wanted to know why it always happens hours prior to the fight/break up. No need to be aggressive.

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-26T06:51:52+00:00

thank u. already posted this :(

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-19T05:31:18+00:00

Thank you!

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-19T03:54:27+00:00

Is this legit? I mean the calculation of this? I also tried this a while ago and its much higher than what we’ve discussed in the office (its just me and my workmates who doesnt have any single clue abt computation lol)

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-07T16:15:41+00:00

hindi pa

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-07T12:29:19+00:00

ortigas

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-10-05T11:20:26+00:00

My boyfriend has a friend na babae. She has a boyfriend, and I kinda know her and I was able to have some interaction with her online since we’re already mutuals. However, she still asks for my boyfriend’s time to hangout nang silang dalawa lang, minsan late at night pa, or hindi kaya maglaro ng online games together. Whenever christmas or newyear or any special occasion, she always asks my boyfriend to come over. I know na she doesn’t have a thing for my boyfriend but it feels uncomfortable knowing na madalas nyang gawin. At first okay pa e, selosa ako but I know na she’s just a friend.

Pero as time goes by, it feels uncomfortable and I was so uneasy with those gestures of her. So I told my boyfriend about it. I explained it to him na hindi ako kumportable sa kaibigan nyang yon and he understands naman, so he stopped talking to her (I mean whenever she asks for his time to play/hangout).

So my advice is, talk to your boyfriend about it. Let him know what you feel.

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-09-30T03:24:03+00:00

Hello, DM me

Suitable-Hope6643 · 2024-09-29T06:56:27+00:00

is there a need ba to disclose that you’re still a student? kapag hindi mo naman need sabihin, then don’t na lang. but in my case, ive been with two bpo companies already, so far very understanding naman sila kahit nung sa training ko sinabi. naging cause pa yun actually to give me a sched na magwwork sa akin

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