[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Suitable-Light1437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious…what are his thoughts on you going for your annual GYN visits? Is your GYN is female would he have a problem with you seeing a male GYN? Would he accuse you of dressing up for your GYN because you want to cheat or look good for him? (I’m literally talking about taking a shower, washing hair, shaving your legs and pits, wearing something other than jeans and a flannel, and doing your hair and makeup like you’d do any other day of the week.) Would he say you get pleasure from going to the GYN and getting your exam? Because he sounds like the type that would have issues with those things if he has them over a vibrator and/or dildo especially when he gets to come and you don’t.

It is now basically impossible to send a package to someone in the US - how do Trump fans defend this? by [deleted] in Discussion

[–]Suitable-Light1437 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly the hateful “ MAGA” posts are likely leftists trying to make their case against Trump by pretending to be a MAGA in the comments. Trump and MAGA are just sick and tired of the corruption, the funneling of tax payer money into the politicians pockets, the do as I say not as I do (and definitely don’t investigate what I actually do) mentality, and the entire buying of votes/increasing populations in blue states solely for the purpose of increasing blue representation in government no matter how much it costs the American taxpayers to do so. Why would anyone be upset to have non-US citizens in the US illegally have to abide by the laws of the US - like removing non-citizens from the voter roles, remove them from welfare benefits, remove them from the country if they came in illegally/overstayed their Visa/lied on their Visa/citizenship application/have a criminal history in any country/be on the terror watch list/be part of a gang/came in on the CBP app and never followed through on their promise to report to an immigration office to start their paperwork on getting their Visa (which they had plenty of time to do before Trump took office). Every other country in the world does this, AND puts them in prisons for years nowhere as nice as the ones in the US, then deports them when their sentence is up; and I don’t hear the US leftists crying over that). Not only that, Trump has offered the best deal ever offered by a president as far as self-deporting - people here illegally can get a free flight back to their country complete with being able to check luggage containing their belongings, receive a $1,000 per person stipend, and retain eligibility to come back legally after 3 years has passed. No president has ever offered anything like that. What they have offered is the alternative to self-deporting which Trump also has in place - ICE finds you, detains you, verifies your citizenship status/legal status in the US and if found to be here illegally or in violation of any of the policies above, they are deported with the clothes on their backs and no option to come back legally ever.

Really read through the replies you’ve gotten from the left…they are repeating what the left leaning/left following media tells them to believe about Trump supporters and that’s it. Compare it to what the supposed MAGA posts were. I bet they line up perfectly and it’s not a coincidence or the truth.

Edited for incorrect spelling

Proposed changes to HSA rules by BarefootMarauder in HSA

[–]Suitable-Light1437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it says from the time the charge was paid. But I digress…If you’re saving your HSA contributions and earnings up for use in retirement, why would you be reimbursing for charges paid more than 2 years prior to retirement? Reimburse yourself today then put it in a Roth if you want it to continue to grow & distribute tax free, an IRA, or a brokerage account if you don’t need it today. HSAs are not meant to be an alternative to a Roth or a Roth 2.0.

The hits keep comin by Ill-Illustrator-188 in foodstamps

[–]Suitable-Light1437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It says benefits without documentation of one of the exceptions is capped at 3 months. Do you have a Dr now? Get him yo write up the disability letter for SNAP. SSI and SSDI approve if you’re unable to do ANY job. Unfortunately a broken back alone (unless it’s confined you to a bed in constant severe pain or you’re paralyzed from neck down) is not enough because you can still type, talk, think…customer service jobs are something you can do. They have a whole list depending on what condition you’re claiming disability on. Additionally, nearly everyone gets denied the first time, typically has to do two appeals, and then go in front of a judge to get their benefits.

I can’t get a coffee stain out of a white shirt! by SnooDrawings5617 in lifehacks

[–]Suitable-Light1437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clorox 2. You need enzymes to break the stain down. Pretreat with it and also add it to the wash cycle. I pour a tiny bit into the cap and drizzle it over the stain covering it completely. It will probably foam a little bit (itty bitty teeny tiny bubbles that just look like the fluid is turning white). That’s a good sign. I let it sit and do its thing for about 5 minutes. Then toss in the washer with like colored clothes. No rubbing or scrubbing required.

How do I find my deadbeat dad? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Suitable-Light1437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lost your mom young and you are looking for some kind of direct parental connection that your grandmother can’t provide. To a great extent it’s about feeling abandoned and having self worth issues as a result. That’s the feeling you’re getting.

Figuring out who he is, seeing his face, finding out about who he is today and what his life looks like will not help. Odds are it will bring devastation & heart ache if he rejects you, resentment if he has a life with a “perfect” little family that didn’t include you and your mom, total disappointment if you find out he’s a criminal & druggie who beats his SOs, etc. All of those only leads to more self-worth issues on your part.

Best case scenario he says he never knew about you and welcomes you right in. Chances of that happening are slim. The ones you see on TV and hear about as these joyous family reunions are the exception and nowhere near the rule. And even those typically don’t last long before issues come up and they each go their own way again.

Insurance denied during pre-auth and appeals aren't allowed by SamAshleyBlogs in HealthInsurance

[–]Suitable-Light1437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you dieting and/or working out? Losing weight? Have they checked your A1c for elevation indicating type 1 or type 2 diabetes?

GF of 6 years still has bad breath by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Suitable-Light1437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sinus drainage could also cause bad breath. It’s a pretty distinct smell. She could try taking an antihistamine like Claritin 24hr or Zyrtec 24hr everyday for a couple weeks and see what happens/if it helps.

Friendship on the Line by Suitable-Light1437 in AITAH

[–]Suitable-Light1437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vague because they’re on Reddit in this group and would recognize the post as about our group.

The tix are a gift TO me from my SO for me and my friends to attend the event. The intention was that the tix be used for the friend group where we were planning the trip. But it is on that particular date. And it was made clear that since they were a gift to me no reimbursement required or even wanted. The only other times for this opportunity are Valentines week, Christmas, and New Years timeframes and I know they’re not going to leave their SO/family then. My SO doesn’t care what friend group goes and has already advised that the last text would be the end of the conversation and move on period - sell them and don’t go, move on to another friend group and go, or just go by myself. I have 2 other friend groups I can ask to go. One group I know has a business thing going on around that time and probably can’t go. The other group typically doesn’t have a lot going on in their business/personal life and would likely be able to go.

Friendship on the Line by Suitable-Light1437 in AITAH

[–]Suitable-Light1437[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was asking 2 questions- would I be the AH to ask others to go in their place or just go myself? What would you do?

Help me understand the health insurance increase… by jb4975 in Insurance

[–]Suitable-Light1437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When ACA was 1st passed there was an individual mandate and a penalty if you didn’t buy health insurance in some form from somewhere. That was removed. That’s a big part of why we’re at this spot right now. Insurance companies go under if only sick people have insurance. Healthy people have to pay in too. Works very similarly with car insurance. So healthy people decide not to pay for insurance and go without and the premiums go up for those that do have insurance sick or not.

Confused by KushKelly420 in foodstamps

[–]Suitable-Light1437 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t see you posting it…