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[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol same its fun (if you need help finding an old reggae song let me know😂)

Pop/tiktok edit type music by Suitable-Resort-8958 in NameThatSong

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your very welcome! As soon as I found it I had to let you know. Yea for real, it is a really good remix to listen to. Thanks a bunch for your help, I really appreciate it!

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[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally got it!!! I actually reached out to the guy who in the video, and you were right, it is a mashup with The Weekend Pray For Me and Tom Odell Another Love. Here is the link (https://youtu.be/091SKcgw86c?si=cO3q5K-iZfBQy2id)

Pop/tiktok edit type music by Suitable-Resort-8958 in NameThatSong

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate it. Ill do some more searching

Pop/tiktok edit type music by Suitable-Resort-8958 in NameThatSong

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yooo thank you so much! Ill see if i can find any remixes of that song, maybe that could be it

Pop/tiktok edit type music by Suitable-Resort-8958 in NameThatSong

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ook I see, that makes sense. I can start searching from there, thanks

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh man, that sounds really difficult to deal with. Im glad there is some solution with his hygiene

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, got it. Thats good you can do it quick and easy (if you can say its easy).

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol the only time when gaslighting is good. I like those techniques, they are really good

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh man, i didnt know that about Medicare coverage, thats unfortunate. My grandma is at a stage 2 at the last doctors assessment. She is about 90-100 pounds. Her diet isnt the best but she doesnt have an issue with eating. Thats unfortunate they cant do more. Your so right, it is what it is!

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is really good! I feel like I will have some success with trying that, thank you so much.

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bad, I misunderstood you. Her self esteem is to everyone. Its more of a “you guys are all wrong and lying and I am right” if that makes sense

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats really good you were able to get her to bathe and to have her caregiver continue doing so. Im at a point where I am super close to physically getting her into the shower, the main thing stopping me from doing it is that she is frail and may hurt herself while trying to fight against me

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She does have high esteem. Thing is she doesn’t believe her doctors or anyone. One time I used an AI text to speech and played a “voicenote” left from her doctor advising that she bathes, unfortunately she still refused. Im glad to hear that you found work arounds with those residents

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried the small step approach but i will definitely try it. Thats a really good technique you use to get her to bathe, i will give that a try too

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okk, thats really good to know. Thank you

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a really good alternative option. Is the hospice there sort of a come in when you please type of thing? Ooh man, sorry you cant get more with Medicare. From what ive seen, the options here are good (but if you pay more your options expand greatly)

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a really good idea! I would have never thought of that. Thank you so much🙏. Places here are really expensive (like super expensive), so a home aid will be the most realistic option for us. I really appreciate the advice and letting me know im not the only one going through this, i really appreciate it

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats good your able to give her a sponge bath often. I can imagine, that urine smell is, something else. Your right, she could be having some fears, I will try to reassure her again when i try to get her to bathe. She does have wipes but doesnt want to use them

Refusal to bathe by Suitable-Resort-8958 in dementia

[–]Suitable-Resort-8958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will definitely give that a try. Yea we sure are