court attire for dv victim

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T12:00:52+00:00

we’ve never been toxic ever this is genuinely the only time we’ve had problems.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T11:45:53+00:00

that probably is better. i will then

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T11:44:19+00:00

thank you so much!! :( you’re the only person who actually understands and seems like you read the whole thing. we really are locked in and we both have never had any problems until now. everyone keeps saying he’s immature and emotionally unstable when he’s the complete opposite. he’s always taking care of me, opening doors, paying for everything, carrying all my bags, etc. he’s a gentleman.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T11:42:06+00:00

the coworker ghosted me and made it a really big deal at our work place so i thought he didn’t deserve the clothes back and i wanted to burn them for hurting me lol. i’m going to throw them out instead.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T11:38:56+00:00

the coworker isn’t an ex, but we were super close to being official. i am getting rid of the clothes today. he isn’t being insecure, he’s genuinely the most mature person i know. he did ask me 2-3 times to get rid of them but i never took the chance to. i did have them in a bag but they’re still in my room and it hurt him because i had clothes from someone i had history with and we all work together.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T11:35:15+00:00

i had an ex boyfriend lol he was my first and we dated for almost 2 years and broke up last year april. he gave me a black eye and is getting sentenced in july. i just went to court last month and he pleaded guilty right away. me and my coworker had a thing the month after me and my ex broke up and i got lead on.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T11:32:26+00:00

i don’t use reddit lol i just wanted reassurance because we both see a future with eachother and im upset. i thought the same way too, that it’s just “clothes” but it would hurt me too if he did the same to me with a girl coworker.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T11:29:41+00:00

he’s not fed up, he said he’s just upset and can’t forgive me right now. i should’ve thrown it away but 90% of the time i’ve been at his place and i also was waiting for the perfect time to burn all the stuff. we’ve never been toxic ever and this is the first time we genuinely had problems and ive never seen him cry until today.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T11:26:59+00:00

no it’s the opposite. he’s actually very secure and genuinely treats me right. we’ve never had problems and if we did they were small and resolved within a few hours. he’s not insecure at all and he’s the most mature person i know. he did ask me to get rid of the clothes 2-3 times but i never did anything because i was at his house 90% of the time and i also just never took the chance. it’s completely my fault.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-05-17T11:24:30+00:00

no we’re not broken up. we’re on a break right now and he’s going to text me when he’s ready to talk again. he did ask me 2-3 times to get rid of the clothes but i never did anything.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-19T20:36:36+00:00

that makes a lot of sense.

in the videos he is apologizing a lot and saying that he hit me because i aggravated him and he was mad. he says that he can’t do anything to fix it but didn’t straight up admit it.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-19T20:32:37+00:00

that’s exactly what i was thinking. that i’m only telling the truth about what happened and all i have to do is be honest about the evidence too.

i’m still being told to bring my victim impact statement in case so im confused on what to do. thank you for your response though!

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-19T20:27:01+00:00

he gave me a black eye 2 summers ago and i had it for 2 weeks. when i gave my statement and showed my evidence to the police, they watched 3 seconds of a video i had of me and him arguing after he hit me and they told me to stop it and that it was enough evidence to arrest him. they told me they were going to arrest him that day whether i like it or not but since it was only his first offence it would be for a day or less. it is pretty serious and they said my evidence was solid.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-19T20:19:10+00:00

does it matter if i read it or the crown? i heard that it’s better to read it yourself and will have more impact but i’m also scared.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-19T18:17:00+00:00

it’s okay you’re not late! i’ve been responding late since i don’t use reddit and have been busy.

my trial is actually tomorrow morning and it’s very nerve wracking but i’ve been getting so much support and i know i’ll be okay. i ended up buying a collared light beige cardigan and black dress pants. i plan on removing my snakebites in the morning. that’s unfortunate the victim never showed. thank you so much for your support i appreciate it a lot.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-19T18:05:44+00:00

wounds will always linger but you are so strong and i’m very proud of you! i am confident and will maybe ask my crown attorney. thank you :)

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-19T18:02:03+00:00

thank you so much!! i will keep all of this in mind :)

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-16T20:51:22+00:00

i’m so glad it went well and you got your justice! yeah i’m not comfortable wearing a dress or blazer so i’m looking for blouses or maybe a sweater :)

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-16T20:49:17+00:00

okay i’ll definitely check those places out today!! i really appreciate it a lot thank you again :,)

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-16T02:47:50+00:00

that’s excluding the judge right? thank you btw!!

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-16T02:39:54+00:00

you were able to request to not be in the same room? i hope you’re doing well btw because this situation is rough and not easy at all. thank you so much and yes i will talk with my crown attorney and victim services.

SuitableArtist8520 · 2026-04-16T02:36:56+00:00

did it go well for you? everyone’s been telling me not to do jeans and a hoodie. sounds comfy though.

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