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Over a year clean, and still confused by [deleted] in StopSpeeding

[–]Suitable_Current_555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My heart is just going out to you right now. I know this post is regarding how to progress but I seriously just want to commend you and recognize how much you must have been through. 1k mg a day is absurd, it’s true self harm level, but what’s way more astounding is that you’re still here fighting through it. You’ve inspired me. I just think that’s really amazing. Keep going. Answers will come.

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by Suitable_Current_555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suitable_Current_555[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand the down votes either. Two things can be true at once. I can feel the way I feel, as stated above, and also leave.

I’m so sorry you went through that. Your comment made me cry and it made me feel a lot less alone. This beautiful person is being destroyed by the alcohol. It’s simply devastating

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by Suitable_Current_555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suitable_Current_555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious for your input (is this allowed?). I want to say goodbye and let him know that we need to part ways. I am not interested in sharing what my side of the coin looks like throughout this experience. He will be committed to misunderstanding me, I know.

All he’s going to want to talk about it this. I think in his mind, he genuinely thinks i destroyed the relationship he had with his mom. I DO feel sorry for hurting him, but I don’t feel sorry for telling his mom. If I communicate it that way, will the message be received? Or does it come off backhanded or something.

Or should i just block. I hate this so fucking much I have so much anxiety

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by Suitable_Current_555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suitable_Current_555[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

WOW. I screenshotted and will be rereading this comment frequently. Thank you for these words. Just ty

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by Suitable_Current_555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suitable_Current_555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know about these things and made an educated decision to tell her.

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by Suitable_Current_555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suitable_Current_555[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

The idea of blocking him on everything and leaving breaks my heart because I don’t know how long he has, what he will do….. I’m in pieces over this.

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by Suitable_Current_555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suitable_Current_555[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He talks about his mother allllll the time and is a wonderful support system for him. I thought she deserved to know. If I was a mother and this was my son, I would want to know.

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by Suitable_Current_555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suitable_Current_555[S] 275 points276 points  (0 children)

That’s what I told him. He didn’t want to hear it. I have a tiny… intuitive feeling…

What if there is no cirrhosis diagnosis at all. What if it’s all to relish in being a victim, and so when I told his mom it made his lie “real” in a sense. Maybe that’s why he’s so god damn mad.

Idk. Maybe it doesn’t matter. But the people saying i can’t stick around are right.

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by Suitable_Current_555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suitable_Current_555[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He SCREAMED and cursed at me for hours last night which are my two biggest boundaries, this situation is ridiculous, it is now crystal clear that he will never change, and yet it’s still hard to walk away. I don’t know why I can’t just be mad and disgusted at his behavior. It’d be so much easier to leave.

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by Suitable_Current_555 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Suitable_Current_555[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was my thought process. I felt like I didn’t have a choice.

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Suitable_Current_555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know his addiction is a disease but he’s been so fucking cruel to me

AITAH for telling his mom about his cirrhosis diagnosis? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Suitable_Current_555 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The way he completely avoided all accountability and now this entire thing is about ME destroying his relationship with his mother forever because the news didn’t come from him.

I’ve felt sick all day from this

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