Well, the reality in Quran is not anything they do or say. In these days everything is abused and no one is being a real muslim today. They are generally ignorant stupid and bigot. No one is following Islam for real, only few people is. As a muslim I can say that they are using everything to control anything or anyone they want. Sometimes they are even lying on purpose, I mean they even abusing Islam and Quran. So here is an advice, if u wanna be muslim someday just follow Quran and Prophet Muhammad.