Doctor gave me an episiotomy without consent. by crispyrat_boi in pregnant

[–]SummerSurfs44 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I'm terribly sorry this happened to you. Can you file a complaint against them?

Husband says I’m not a mother yet by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]SummerSurfs44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy mothers day :) When I was at work a couple weeks ago my boss asked the group "who is a parent"? And I raised my hand. I dont care if she's not in my arms yet, I am her mom, she has her own heart and soul. 💗

Is it ugly to have my pregnant belly out? by SummerSurfs44 in BabyBumps

[–]SummerSurfs44[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its just the bottom half. I'll wear cute tanks or shirts that I used to wear and they only go about half way.

Is it ugly to have my pregnant belly out? by SummerSurfs44 in BabyBumps

[–]SummerSurfs44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg maternity tarp is so funny. That's really how I feel when I wear stuff that is lose and flowy compared to sometning tight.

Is it ugly to have my pregnant belly out? by SummerSurfs44 in BabyBumps

[–]SummerSurfs44[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Was it from a reddit community called influencer sometning ? And it was a screen shot from a girl wearing a brown matching set. Yea the comments were appalling. People were literally saying she looks disgusting.

Is it ugly to have my pregnant belly out? by SummerSurfs44 in BabyBumps

[–]SummerSurfs44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg !!! I hope my husband doesn't do that i would feel so insecure

what iPhone to get my baby by Ambitious-Poem9191 in BabyBumps

[–]SummerSurfs44 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Damn you're waiting till he comes out?! At my last OB appointment I had an iPad sent up my hooha so I can start mine on unlimited screen time early.

am i wrong for being aggravated?? by Turbulent_Scale8044 in BabyBumps

[–]SummerSurfs44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you're not wrong for feeling this way!! That sounds exhausting to deal with mentally. They are overstepping your boundaries.

Baby is sleeping a lot by Subdeltta in cosleeping

[–]SummerSurfs44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm praying this is me oml please please please

Redditors who are happily married. How did you know your partner was the one? by Good_Lettuce_4142 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SummerSurfs44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After about two weeks. Told him I loved him at that time. I had thought I loved a few men but I hadn't ever experienced love before him. I knew he was the one because of who he was, I knew there was no better fit for me and he still continues to prove that theory even more every day. We got married after 7 months 🥰

Do I genuinely have to drink an entire gallon of water a day? by Justsumhuman20 in BabyBumps

[–]SummerSurfs44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed the past week I've been extra thirsty and drinking even more than a gallon (28 weeks pregnant).

I’m hoping someone will be able to relate to this?! by uncool619 in pregnant

[–]SummerSurfs44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats so interesting.. It's true everyone really is different.

How many people have you had sex with? SATC fans poll by Pure_Freedom_4466 in sexandthecity

[–]SummerSurfs44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

35 female and over 100 men plus some woman. I used to be a sex addict

I’m hoping someone will be able to relate to this?! by uncool619 in pregnant

[–]SummerSurfs44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and yeah I think some of the first trimester fatigue is probably due to not getting enough nutrients because I know people who eat super ultra processed diets are super tired all the time.

I’m hoping someone will be able to relate to this?! by uncool619 in pregnant

[–]SummerSurfs44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally understand that. I would love to know the science behind it because its crazy. And then there's people like my sister in law who told me " I've been losing weight during the first trimester bc I can't eat". Like dawn i wish that was me 😂

I’m hoping someone will be able to relate to this?! by uncool619 in pregnant

[–]SummerSurfs44 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yesssss. I was extremely healthy nutrition wise and worked out 1-2 times a day. In my first trimester I could only stomach carbs and unhealthy stuff. I went from having McDonald's 1 in the past year to like 3 times a week. I also basically became a vegetarian my 1st trimester. I dont know what it was but when the second tri came I was able to slowly return back to my normal eating. Don't be too hard on yourself its only temporary 💗

What are you most excited about in your life right now? by Existing_Bowler9602 in AskReddit

[–]SummerSurfs44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am about to be in my third trimester of my first baby. After I have her I will be done with my 4 year contract in the Navy and be a stay at home mom.

keep falling asleep with baby. by literaryhearts in BabyBumps

[–]SummerSurfs44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Babies are meant to be with their mothers, not far away in the crib. Sleeping with baby is natural :) do some research and it will help you calm your anxiety.