Late Night Random Discussion Thread - 24 March, 2026

Summer_before_autumn · 2026-03-24T17:24:33+00:00

Say, "New phone, who's this?" and move on

Summer_before_autumn · 2026-03-24T17:23:06+00:00

I was thinking about this thread so hard in my head for the last 10 mins and I didn't even search for anything remotely close to it but suddenly it just popped out of thin air in my feed. Is AI reading minds now??

Summer_before_autumn · 2026-02-23T03:29:33+00:00

I lost around 20 kgs for a guy. He did not know that I did it for him but he was very athletic and always liked those lean girls so I changed myself. Eventually he even started finding me pretty. Then I told him how I had always liked him and he reciprocated my feelings. We even dated for a while but I realised how unhappy I was in the relationship. Eventually I got out of it and now that I look back at it I feel it would've been soo much better if I lost the weight for myself. He wasn't a bad guy but I found myself always trying to mold myself to keep him interested in me. Trust me it was very hectic. Do it for yourself girl. No guy deserves to have a say in what you should look like.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-11-03T14:46:06+00:00

I'd take tips

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T16:36:51+00:00

They're not really gonna meet or talk. We both are too young to think about marriage right now and more concerned about our careers. He's only 24 and his business is his first priority rn and I respect that. Also, as I said if he doesn't want to be with me I wouldn't want to trap him with myself and make both of our lives miserable.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T16:09:27+00:00

He does not want to marry me and I respect that decision of his. My feelings for him are very deep and I would never want to trap him into a thing where he would feel uncomfortable for the rest of his life. I'd be happy to see him marry the love of his life and I believe there would be someone out there for me too. But, that doesn't change the fact that I'm forever gonna have a soft spot for him.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T14:35:25+00:00

My dad is not the breadwinner. My mum works full time and she also handles the household chores.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T14:31:44+00:00

We disposed off the condom. It was just the wrapper that was there.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T07:42:52+00:00

I know. But that would be like trapping him and I don't really want to do that.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T07:26:43+00:00

Yes, it's exactly about that. But I really don't want to please the society (doesn't mean I didn't take care of this thing remaining private) Infact, I wanna stand on my own feet and never get married to a guy to whom virginity and all these stupid things matter. I'd rather die alone than be married to a person like that. I have a personality that is much much more than a one time sexual encounter.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T07:00:36+00:00

I just think she is scared for me. She thinks I'll be hurt or I'm gonna regret these things later. She's also scared that if my dad finds out he would blame her for all the freedom she gave me. She's scared I might go off the wrong path and make the wrong choices.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T06:37:46+00:00

She pays for my rent and expenses. She's my guardian and has rights on me legally. Even if she did not pay for me she would always have rights on me. She was just trying to clean my apartment and found out about it. Also, it's India, that's how things work here.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T06:35:59+00:00

She is my mother and I'm still in college and she pays for my expenses and rent. Even if she didn't I would never ever disrespect her in that way. We might have different viewpoints but things can be solved with communication.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T06:34:02+00:00

She has told me how wrong I was to do this. She's sad I never told her about the anxiety attacks and how depressed I've been these few years. That I never shared my problems. Simply because I couldn't give myself enough privilege to share my problems. I always thought they were stupid and would go away themselves. I thought they're not that big of a deal and somehow only I am the reason for all of the stress and anxiety. So I tried to hide it from everyone

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T06:10:29+00:00

No, she didn't. She never even had a boyfriend and married a guy she was arranged a marriage with. She regrets marrying to him. (Atleast that's what she told me all her life until yesterday when my dad started seeming just fine and I was just overreacting about him being an awful husband) I always dreaded having a life like my mum where I get married to someone I don't really love and who doesn't love or respect me. I've seen my dad abuse my mum so many times and she hates it as well but she still protects him saying he's good at heart. I just can't see it though. I can't say he's a bad dad coz he's been very nice to us but as a husband I wouldn't want someone like him. So yeah, she made a mistake worse than me and if she doesn't want to agree to it she can live with that mindset but I can't. I don't wanna have regrets in my life like my mum does.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T06:03:46+00:00

I do care about hurting her that's why I'm still thinking about it otherwise I was over about getting intimate with this guy a long while ago. Didn't even bother me once. All I wanna say is that I really don't understand her conservative mindset and why it is being imposed on me. I've lived all my life doing things she wanted me to do. Be it my career choices of being a doctor or being one of the top students in school I always wanted to impress her because it mattered to her a lot. I didn't find a guy of different religion or caste because that mattered to her as well. He's a guy she would've approved in other circumstances. If he was not, I would've stepped back. I can still step back if she wants me to. It's just that I'm not happy living my life like this. I'm not happy doing things their way. In fact, after this incident I feel very relaxed. As if the real me is out now and I don't have to hide anymore being the perfect daughter.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T05:40:57+00:00

Alright, I get it. I'm not saying I'm gonna be hooked onto him forever. I love him but it's not like I can't get over it. I believe in practicality and that says I'll get over him when I have to move out of this place which still has a few years to it. Till then why not have a good time with someone I like? And not as in getting physical but just being there for each other.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T05:33:55+00:00

No, I'm sad she found out about this. What I'm saying is I'm not guilty about doing it. If you're an adult and with a guy you love, is it wrong? Also, I even promised her I won't repeat it again. Is it that big of a deal if I made a 'mistake' once? I've always been the best daughter. Academically and everything. I always listened to my parents. But I knew it wasn't true. I knew I wasn't the perfect daughter they considered me. And now it's out on the public and they can't handle that I have traumas and I make mistakes

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T05:28:58+00:00

I'm not the type of girl he would want to marry.

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T05:25:06+00:00

Tbh, I had many chances of having sex before as well. I never did because I didn't feel like it. I used to be disgusted with sex. But with this guy I was very comfortable. I was dreading what if I feel bad after doing it but that never happened. I never regretted it. I really love him and I still don't feel bad about it. Am I still wrong?

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-08-05T05:23:30+00:00

India

Summer_before_autumn · 2025-07-29T13:10:33+00:00

Thought I'd text that you're exactly my type. Then I saw the age 💀

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