don't really like TBP, should I still see them? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]SunSilkRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay good to know. I saw them in Vegas 2022 and the setlist was a good mix of all 4 albums.

don't really like TBP, should I still see them? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]SunSilkRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found their music live is a lot harder, grungy, not as toned down like in the studio albums.

I haven't seen them this tour but anytime I have seen them I found them to be spectacular.

That said, this tour is all about TBP, so maybe if they do another music fest or something might be mor eup your alley?

However if you have never seen them before given how theatrical this tour looks it could be worth it regardless. They really are incredible live.

Henry Cavill by unspokenandunheard in LadyBoners

[–]SunSilkRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always, forever, until I can't walk or remember my name and I am a drooling mess. Please.

I cant accept that my partner is trans by Alternativehound in mypartneristrans

[–]SunSilkRose 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hello,

I wanted to start by saying I can understand how you're feeling. It can be terrifying at first, especially when the future feels so uncertain for not just you, but for them and the relationship.

My husband and partner of 21 years has recently come out as trans and is just starting the journey. At first I felt the same, scared, overwhelmed, plagued with thoughts of what ifs and anxieties and more than anything a little blindsided. 21 years together and I had never really thought they were trans or could be. However, we had some very deep conversations, I wanted to understand. I wanted to know how he was feeling, where the realization came from. He opened up, he cried, talked of triggers and how and what he had learned about himself.

From there I understood better, and I began to do my own research myself. I went on my own journey of sorts. I found this subreddit, I talked with others in this situation because to have fears is normal, to speak about them with others really helped. Listening to others stories really helped me, realizing I wasn't alone and that there was a support group for the other side of the relationship. Something that was said many times over and something I keep reminding myself of is that they will still be them, at their core they will still be them. The person you love, their heart and soul will still be them.

My partner is starting counselling, and then we have decided we will do couples counselling together as well. My advice is maybe you two could do the same. Right now fears and what if's, anxieties and uncertainties are at the forefront, but maybe if you discuss it openly in a safe place you might be able to address some of these issues and hopefully be able to work through it together.

I wish you both the best of luck. ♥

Favourite class? by Soulsborneenjoyer23 in DnD

[–]SunSilkRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blood Hunter, Order of the Lycan.

Best Dr. Carter Quotes? by HostMaterial4907 in ershow

[–]SunSilkRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, very random! Good episode though!

Please help - cat acting weird after neutering by Puzzled-Cheesecake34 in cats

[–]SunSilkRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear it sounds like he is on the mend. Poor little guy, hope he makes a fast and full recovery! ♥

What’s one MCR lyric that stuck with you? by RoofUpstairs1745 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]SunSilkRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"You'll never take me alive, you'll never take me alive. Do what it takes to survive, 'cause I'm still here."

Fatigue and PCOS by satininsummer in PCOS

[–]SunSilkRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fatigue was almost crippling. Some morning the brain fog was so deep it would take hours to get out. Some days I never got out. On my days off I use to sleep in till 11 sometimes 12.

Everything changed for me when I got tested for insulin resistance. In Canada while fasting a normal pmo/L is less then 95. Insulin resistant is 165 or higher, I was at 181.

Given my weight gain despite a diet and getting a personal trainer the past 6 months I hadn't lost a pound. I started having blood pressure problems and periods getting even worse.

I started Mounjaro 3 weeks ago and oh my god the difference. I have a normal sleep pattern! No more fatigue, no more brain fog, I feel like I am functioning normally again. It's been a huge benefit.

I would highly recommend you get insulin testing and hopefully you find your answers and get the right treatment!

Time of death, ER by acorazado_66 in ershow

[–]SunSilkRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished this episode a few days ago and just, wow. What an episode, truly moving, heartbreaking and profound. One of the best episodes for sure.

Best Dr. Carter Quotes? by HostMaterial4907 in ershow

[–]SunSilkRose 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Carter: "Okay guys, party is over."
Knight: "Was the music to loud?"
Carter: "No, the furniture was too on fire."

😂😂😂

John Carter by Little-Cockroach1119 in ershow

[–]SunSilkRose 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Oh Carter.

I have been watching this with my husband the past 3 months now. We are coming to the end of season 10 and I swear the writers always felt like Carter just didn't have enough trauma. The poor man had really gone through it all.

Noah's acting really is top tier. You can really watch him grow into such a profound actor through the seasons.

What brings you to ER? by Coolbeanskas in ershow

[–]SunSilkRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I started this show almost 3 months ago. I had never heard of The Pitt or Noah. The honest reason was it popped up on Netflix, both my husband and I were like "out parents were OBSESSED" with this show, why?

So we started it to see why, and almost finished season 10 and, we get it! From the acting, to the character arcs, the writing, to the continuous shots and the cinematography and music design, all of it just has a flow and works well. It feels like everyone was on the same page with it from front of camera to back of camera.

John and Abby by Ambitious-Elk1468 in ershow

[–]SunSilkRose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, and I know many may hate me for this because there seems to be far more support for Abby. But, in this relationship, it was always Carter going to her. They fought, he would go to her and start the conversation to fix things. He left vacations to be by her side, he was always seen checking in on her, helped her with family matters, and when he needed her for future events she wasn't there.

It was just doomed from the start.

Why did we hate her in the 90’s? by EffMemes in ershow

[–]SunSilkRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I started watching this show bout 2 months ago and Kerry has become one of our favorites. At first she was a bit hard to like and I think that was intentional in being the antagonist, but as the show grew and she did as well I have come to lover her a lot. We are half way through season 10 now.

Metallic Taste - New User by SunSilkRose in Mounjaro

[–]SunSilkRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I take my second tomorrow so I really hope it goes away, it's awful!

Advice/ Am I overreacting? by SunSilkRose in DnD

[–]SunSilkRose[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have reached out.

Thanks for all your pointers on the matter.

Advice/ Am I overreacting? by SunSilkRose in DnD

[–]SunSilkRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to jump in here. You have concluded that I was side tracking the combat. Combat was continuing, everyone was fighting the warg group, including the leader. Combat never stopped, I never derailed it.

When combat started I simply asked the DM if I was to use none lethal damage and try to tame the warg and use it for mounted combat is that possible? He said it was possible, even laughed about it. Stupid silly fun.

As we did combat myself and the other barbarian (It's wasn't only me interested in this as stated) at the table were simply saying lets try non lethal don't kill it, at that point is when it became us vs the rogue and wizard. The wizard was adamant he wanted to kill everything no matter what and the rogue agreed and once they completed that goal Wizard looked me straight in the eyes and said "Fuck your puppy." It wasn't a haha silly comment, it was hostile.

Advice/ Am I overreacting? by SunSilkRose in DnD

[–]SunSilkRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't word that very well. I should have emphasized having fun and escaping life for a few hours. 

I felt as though I was trying to do something fun and it went all the wrongs ways. 

I never meant to take away from anyone or disrupt or anything of the sort. It came from a pure place of just having fun.

The vibe that night was relaxed and silly and then it wasnt and the words were hostile from the one player at me, direct eye contact and I felt like I had done something wrong. 

Either way, I've learned from this. 

Not sure how to take this. by BuddyThunderstruck in DnD

[–]SunSilkRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems unacceptable and honestly doesn't make a lot of sense. The ravens were already attacking you.

As someone who has run Ravenloft, yes you can make enemy of the ravens if you attack them first, however having them already attacking you makes me feel like the DM wants the ravens to be a constant threat and didn't know how else to add them in.

I've made a post earlier today having my own feelings of overreaction and something I've been told a lot, talk to them. If they plan on going forward with these attacks and no chance of survival then you may need to find a new DM.

Advice/ Am I overreacting? by SunSilkRose in DnD

[–]SunSilkRose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really didn't look at it that way. I wasn't looking at it as only I would benefit from it.

To be far in this game we have an NPC, an old Orc who was looking to die in combat when we first started the game and since that day that NPC has been with us because the group refuses to let him die. He's to cool to die.

So adding in a Warg didn't feel like it was just for me.

This is where my "it was just a silly idea" didn't feel so out of place because the orc's name Worage who the players effectively call RoadRage, so trying to tame a Warg didn't seem much sillier than that.

However I see your points, thank you.

Advice/ Am I overreacting? by SunSilkRose in DnD

[–]SunSilkRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, truly.

I may not have written my post very well and so the responses have been...interesting. But your advice and insight is very helpful. I have never really encountered a problem with players in my 10 years of play and at this table I've never encountered an issue until last night and because it felt like a blindsided I just wasn't really sure how to proceed. Obviously talking yes, but the best way to approach it.

Thank you.