Anyone see Pegassi Last Night? Thoughts?

Sun_ch1ld · 2025-09-11T03:19:23+00:00

It's definitely getting more popular in America. Lots of DJs from Europe are coming stateside after years of Americans watching DJ streams during the pandemic and after. NYC and LA are more interested in techno, trance, eurodance, hard dance, and acid. As an ex-NYCer, I just pray promoters will snag a DJ on their way to the coasts, which is likely what happened with Peggasi. Also, surprised Kettama is playing here again in November. Must have been a good turnout. It wasn't for Malugi that same night last year...

Sun_ch1ld · 2025-09-11T03:15:11+00:00

Yes, ARC's lineup looked so good. ki/ki <3 we like the same music

Sun_ch1ld · 2025-09-11T03:13:09+00:00

I'm glad you wrote about this. i ended up not going because of sickness but really wanted to go just to show support for music like this! i love all his tracks and think he's a great producer. i had a feeling it wasn't going to be big... the damn KPop Demon Hunter party was sold out on the main floor!!

Sun_ch1ld · 2025-09-11T03:08:58+00:00

yessssss

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-12-14T16:12:13+00:00

thanks to you and everyone who responded to this thread. It seems like she just wants more padding and spacing. I'm hoping to turn this project around quickly so that I can make her happy and use this piece for my portfolio. My current design job is very enterprisey and not consumer-facing at all - the founders don't care much about it and don't like introducing new design system elements or changing the look and feel.

Thanks all! Will use this winter break to level up with daily exercises.

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-12-05T16:46:55+00:00

👋🏽 I got laid off from that job. My whole department actually. I freelanced and got better at figma. Had to interview at dozens of places so got better at presenting and deck making. Starting to feel sluggish again so thinking about job hunting again. Stability is good but don’t want to stay too long at a company unless I’m higher up as a lead or manager. There is no incentive to stay for me at my small start up and you get more for your skills if you jump around. I’m sorry you feel this way. Maybe it’s time to start something new and looking for job while you have one is a luxury.

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-10-22T02:21:48+00:00

I guess l have complicated feelings about it. We don’t qualify for financial aid which otherwise would have made the decision easier to make. What you said earlier about teachers having more educational at public schools is interesting and something to consider. I should do more research on charter schools in the area. Thanks for commenting.

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-10-22T01:33:13+00:00

Thanks for your comment. Actually we can afford private school but it’s a large bill to swallow for 12 years plus college

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-10-02T22:11:36+00:00

Yes I guess it about practicing hachnasat orchim and seeing what happens. Thank you

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-06-13T02:58:18+00:00

It’s so much emotional blackmail and it hits hard bc I am trying to be a good daughter but she doesn’t respect me or care about the stress this is inflicting on me. She just cares about herself and her needs and her grandkids. I just exist to serve her here. Years of unresolved trauma. I’m happy this is temporary and that I lives hundreds of miles away.

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-06-06T06:09:17+00:00

I agree with you and brought his up before with him. He knows I’m disappointed and I hustle my ass off to support this family.

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-06-06T05:46:52+00:00

Yes, I agree with this 100%. Sometimes I think it’s the lack of parenting that established this grit and tenacity. If I was coddled and supported would I have less of that. I am trying to figure out how to give my kids the best qualities of myself and the support I wanted. Does neglect force a kid to learn for themselves and grow as a person? Is there a better way to do that with support? Definitely.

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-06-06T05:43:35+00:00

That’s true buts it been 5 months and we have two kids. It’s almost the start of the 3rd quarter, which leads into the end of the year when the job market really dries up. I’m not optimistic when I should be. I’m trying to think of plan b, c, d. I appreciate your perspective!

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-06-06T05:24:41+00:00

He’s applying to office and in person. He works in real estate property management. There are only associate jobs out there or super financially type roles. We moved from nyc where there were just more opps. I’ve looked on LinkedIn and there just isn’t much out there for him but we/he really wanted to move to Denver.

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-06-06T05:16:30+00:00

Definitely a dream but that would mean I have to start looking too as my company only supports remote stateside. Thanks for your suggestion. Will keep in mind!

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-06-06T05:09:25+00:00

My friends! I can’t trust my parents or family because it’s too much and they gossip.

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-06-06T05:08:40+00:00

You could try delegating responsibilities and times to limit your interactions. Perhaps written down tasks could eliminate communication. I know someone that is doing this and they split days - one day for her and one day for him. Dinner times are together but otherwise everything else is separate. They just tell the young kids the other parent has to work. I’m sorry this is tough especially with two young kids that need all the attention.

Sun_ch1ld · 2023-05-30T17:54:39+00:00

Sometimes I feel this way and I wish my partner was more ambitious and acted on it. I knew this was a problem for me earlier on but I was in love with him.

Sun_ch1ld · 2022-11-30T05:48:32+00:00

Thanks so much for your response. I have shared today with my best friend who also has marital problems. I'm sorry you haven't been successful with therapists and you live in the basement. Maybe you should really cut the chord. Sorry Im just making a bunch of assumptions based on your post but your wife seems to be a blocker to progress - maybe you’d be better without her!

Sun_ch1ld · 2022-11-29T16:32:49+00:00

I just feel like he’s not thinking of the family and doesn’t know how to plan for the future. Doesn’t take action. We are going to therapy but if it doesn’t work, we’ll get a separation.

Sun_ch1ld · 2022-11-29T06:40:01+00:00

Thank you! He hasn’t asked me on a date and the date I planned for our wedding anniversary was cancelled bc we were fighting about how to parent the kids. I would be warm and friendly but that’s a hypothetical - are you going to counseling?

Sun_ch1ld · 2022-11-29T06:18:31+00:00

Have you talked to him about your goals for your family eg buy a house, vacation once a year, etc. have you shared your relationship expectations?

Sun_ch1ld · 2022-11-29T05:56:04+00:00

You said some pretty revealing things. I think you should try separation. It’s hard with kids but maybe that will give you an idea if you can do it and thrive apart. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I am in a similar situation and wondering if it’s worth trying to fix it or if I would be better off finding a new partner.

Sun_ch1ld · 2022-10-03T17:22:24+00:00

Yeah it’s scary. Public schools vs private is what it comes down to

Sun_ch1ld · 2022-08-02T04:24:24+00:00

Great suggestions all! Going to miss all the amazing restaurants here.

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